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VERNON ROBERT LANDER (VERN)
Born: Jan 16, 1957
Date of Passing: Jan 11, 2021Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or Memory
VERNON ROBERT LANDER
March 16, 1957 - January 11, 2021
After a brief illness, and with his loving wife and daughters at his side, Vern left us at the St. Boniface Hospital on January 11, 2021.
Vern was born on March 16, 1957 in Port Hope, Ontario. At the young age of 16, he found a lifelong passion in driving truck. He owned and operated his own company for numerous years before finding his home at Rothesay/Darling. He made many good friends over the years there and was very proud of his work and the friends he had made.
Vern met Denise, the love of his life, when he was 22. Not long after, Denise too got her Class 1 license, and the two of them hit the road as a team. During the summertime, with little Carole in tow, they travelled across the country as a family, with Vern never missing a chance to make life more enjoyable; picking up treats and Archie comic books for Carole whenever they stopped at a truck stop.
After a few years on the road, they relocated out west; spending time in Salmon Arm, Revelstoke and Drayton Valley, in search of a peaceful, simple life for his family. A little later in life, the family moved back to Manitoba, and started a new chapter in life. Together, they took in their first foster family, and with that, his family grew to include five new members; Angie, Wendy, Greg Loretta and Sam. They had many adventures together, including packing all the kids into the cab of a truck and heading out to Disneyland. In spite of their busy life, Vern and Denise still found time to travel together, with a trip to Hong Kong, and many to Acapulco, creating memories they could cherish for a lifetime. Later in life, he became the family confidante; never missing the opportunity to listen to his loved ones talk about their day, and all their hopes and dreams. He always knew what to say, and how to make people forget their problems, and feel better about themselves. His special, empathetic ways will be sadly missed by all he knew.
A lifelong passion of Vern's was animals; from cats and dogs to his horses, he found peace and comfort in being with all of them. He was also an avid reader, and especially loved to get lost in his westerns and cartoons.
Vern is survived by his loving wife of 41 years, Denise, his daughter Carole (Jarrod), sons, Robert and Michael, stepdaughter Renee, his foster children, Angelena (Dave), Wendy (Kevin), Greg, Loretta (Corey), Samantha (Chad), Valerie, Ashley, Erin, Tara, Terry, Natisha, Sunshine, Sunflower, Sweetgrass, MorningStar, Desiree, Jasmine, Dominique, Jhett, Josephine, Agnes and many others that were short term stays with his family. He is also survived by his mom Shirley, sisters, Karen and Kathy, brothers, John and Michael; his cousins, Lorraine, Ethel and Verna; many brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, 39 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.
Vern will be truly missed by all who knew him. His kind smile. His infectious laughter and his jokes.
"That man is a success-
who leaves the world better than he found it;
who has never lacked appreciation of the world's beauty or failed to express it;
who looked for the best in others and
gave the best he had..."
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations may be made to the Winnipeg Humane Society in Vern's honour.
Family and friends may sign a
book of condolence at www.glenlawn.ca.
Glen Lawn Funeral Home
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jan 16, 2021
Condolences & Memories (15 entries)
We are so sorry to hear of Verns passing. We always enjoyed when Vern came on our yard . Always cheerful and happy. Often sent appreciation treats for his ride but he always said , my wife loves treats , I’m taking them home to her . We will miss him a lot . Our thoughts and prayers are with you . Ewald Kasdorf family and Cabin Ridge - Posted by: Ewald Kasdorf (Customer) on: Feb 12, 2021
We are so sorry for your loss. Vern was our Rothesy driver for many years and his friendly persona was enjoyed and appreciated, Vern would always go the extra mile. May God comfort you all. - Posted by: Cabin Ridge, Three Brothers and Kasdorf Farms (Clients) on: Feb 12, 2021
He was more then just a dad or father figure he was my hero and is now my angel. He has made such a difference in my life as a child in care. He allowed me to be able to trust men and that not all men are mean and hurtful. He was a grace of God put on this earth to help many children and people. I miss his laugh and smile and of course all his jokes. But most of all I miss his presence at the clubhouse. Dad I miss you and love you until we meet again xoxo. - Posted by: Wendy Higgins (Daughter) on: Jan 27, 2021
First of all I would like to say how very sorry I was to hear of the passing of Vern. He has touched many lives over the years. I also want to say how much I have appreciated both Vern and Denise for the love and care they gave so many children who needed a home and to know that these children are now contributing adults to society. Denise, please know you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. To all the children and grandchildren, remember Vern how he was when you interacted with him. You will always have those memories and though he may not physically be with you, he will still always be near. Remember that you are never alone because God has you all in the palm of His hand. - Posted by: Wendy Phillips (friend) on: Jan 18, 2021
May your soul R.I.P dad. You are never forgotten and loved for eternity. My deepest sympathy for the Lander family. - Posted by: Sunshine (Foster daughter) on: Jan 17, 2021
“We are thinking of you during these difficult times.” Love 💕 Larry & Georgette Franks - Posted by: Georgette Franks (Friend) on: Jan 16, 2021
A great man he is he gave us an amazing daughter to be part of our family, Vern please know we will take care of her and your family, gone but never forgotten may you now rest in peace. - Posted by: Tammy (Friend) on: Jan 16, 2021
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family and Vern family. You are in our thought and our prayers. May you feel comfort and love at this time. God bless you and keep you safe. - Posted by: The Raynaud Family (Denise Cousins) on: Jan 16, 2021
So sorry to hear about Vern my condolences go out to you and your family Denise he always did have a smile and a great laugh he is with Val and Phil now always be looking watching over you and your family take care - Posted by: Gilberte (Friend ) on: Jan 16, 2021
Vern touched the lives of so many people, even in his childhood. He was full of laughter and a joy of the outdoors. From an early age he was musical, learning to play the piano and sing songs he heard on the radio. He liked to entertain with corny "knock-knock" jokes. He tolerated alternatively playing Barbies and toy tractors in the mud. He was the one the small pets gravitated towards and he had a gift for calming horses. As a brother, although younger than me, he was protective and full of advice about boys. He was intolerant of injustice or any sort of mean spiritedness. He worked hard and found joy in his family. Every child mattered to him. He was modest about the good work he and his beloved Denise did and the love and support they gave to others. Vern was a great man in all the ways that matter the most. Rest in peace my beautiful brother. - Posted by: Karen Radke (Sister) on: Jan 16, 2021
Our deepest sympathies Denise and family! Vern was a kind and gentle man . He was so loved! He is now your guardian angel. Rest In Peace Vern. - Posted by: Guy and Agathe Lacroix (Cousin) on: Jan 16, 2021
Fly high my hero my dad, gunna miss your jokes your smile your hugs. Till we meet again dad. Love you. - Posted by: Loretta (Daughter) on: Jan 16, 2021
Our sincere and deepest sympathies Denise and all your family. Met Vern when you guys would come for coffee he was a very gentle and kind man so pleasant to talk to. He will be missed by all who knew him. Taken way to soon. May God Bless you all during these hard times 🙏🙏🙏 - Posted by: Marcel Ruth Leclaire (Friend) on: Jan 16, 2021
Out deepest condolences to all the family. I am so happy that my son is a part of your family. Vern you welcomed him into your family. - Posted by: Colleen Fenzl (Friend) on: Jan 16, 2021
Vern was truly a great man and will definitely be missed my deepest condolences to all of the family. My luv goes out to all of you at this sad time ! - Posted by: sandra mcevoy (Friend ) on: Jan 16, 2021
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