JAY TOBIN

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JAY TOBIN Known to all as the eyeglass lady (who was interviewed on CBC TV), or the ticket lady (she sold tickets at the Garrick and Deluxe Theatres). Jay passed away on April 28, 2011 and was buried at the Hebrew Sick Cemetery where her parents are also interred. She lingered in illness for over a year, but in the end wanted to die at home. We are pleased that we were able to honour her wish. Born in Winnipeg on July 15, 1928 to Rose and Mike Tobin, Jay lost her mother at a young age and was raised in the Jewish Orphanage of Winnipeg. She is survived by her only close relative, her cousin Reva Henriques of Vancouver. Despite Jay's early losses and hardships she evolved into a witty, bright, and engaging woman whose love of life was felt by all who knew her. No matter what challenges came her way, Jay showed incredible resilience and fortitude, always welcoming the company of others with an open heart and smile. She touched many lives with her warm personality and flair for living. Over the years, Jay's friendly and outgoing nature drew many people to her and she made many close and loyal friends. We would like to thank the Minuk family, Pearl Nepon, and Laurie Mason for their close friendship. Appreciation is extended to Adeena Lungen, Orah Kleiman and to her devoted care givers, Laura Rabang and especially to Maria Da Silva. Another person important in Jay's life was Benny Teixeira, a caring companion for over 20 years. We would also like to acknowledge the help of Jewish Child and Family Service, her many Home Care workers, and the Palliative Care doctors and nurses at both Riverview Hospital and in Jay's home. Sammy Minuk delivered the eulogy at her funeral and six Grade 12 students from the Gray Academy were her pallbearers. Our loving blessings go with you, Jay, and special memories of your gentle spirit will comfort us all.

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on May 20, 2011