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JAMES ELLIOTT COYNE

Born: Jul 17, 1910

Date of Passing: Oct 12, 2012

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JAMES ELLIOTT COYNE July 17, 1910 - October 12, 2012 James Elliott Coyne scholar, lawyer, public servant, family man and practicing eccentric was born July 17, 1910 in Winnipeg, Manitoba. He lived through more than a century of unprecedented social and technological change (on his eighth birthday, Czar Nicholas II was assassinated), that stretched from the early days of manned flight to the exploration of Mars. Through it all, he maintained the same qualities of intellect and character, the same unwavering personal style (Oxford cloth shirt, grey flannels, burgundy vest and navy blue blazer), and the same unflappable good humour. With his passing, Canada loses the last of a generation of great public servants. The son of James Bowes Coyne, a Manitoba Court of Appeal judge, and Edna Margaret Elliott, he was a graduate of the University of Manitoba and a Rhodes Scholar. At Oxford, he studied jurisprudence, captained the hockey team, toured Europe and met Albert Einstein. After practicing law with his father, he joined the research bureau of the Bank of Canada in 1938, then held a succession of increasingly important posts in the federal government, eventually becoming deputy governor of the Bank in 1950 and governor in 1955. Through the first two decades of his working life, he maintained a disciplined routine of self-reliance, cooking, cleaning and taking long walks every day. He enjoyed collecting antique books and maps, and paintings of the Canadian landscape. In the summers he would return to Lake of the Woods, where he had learned to sail as a boy. He had friends, interests, a successful and challenging career, and was to all outward appearances a contented bachelor. That was until the day he met Meribeth Stobie Riley, a young widow with three unusually lively small children; two more were to follow soon after. Within a few short years he went from being a single man in middle age to a father of five, from a life of peace and quiet contemplation to a life of clamour and domestic bedlam. He couldn't have been happier. When circumstances brought him home to his beloved Winnipeg, he became what is now known as a stay-at-home Dad. He was a quiet and constant presence in our lives, who taught more by example than by lectures. Yet he was also an inexhaustible source of arcane knowledge, with endless patience for the questions of small children. He was the kind of father who actually knew why the sky was blue, and how old was the universe, and the names of all the trees. His greatest gift to us was the summers we spent at magical Lake of the Woods, where our family still gathers to this day. Dad was a model of how to age gracefully, and was in excellent shape mentally and physically all through his first century. In his sixties he took up bridge, becoming a fixture of the Manitoba bridge scene and attaining the status of Silver Master. He walked an hour every day, and maintained a strict if occasionally puzzling health regime: brussel sprouts, blueberries, olive oil, and chocolate Revellos. He read widely the origins of the universe, the science of the brain, mathematics though he had a weakness for lurid murder mysteries and cryptic crosswords. He continued to follow economic and stock market developments closely, as well as current politics. Discussing legal issues with one of his grandchildren, a newly minted lawyer, he could toss off precedents from law books he would have last opened in the early 1930s. In his mid-90s, he was still driving to Florida. He was a man of many contrasts. Though fundamentally shy and short on small talk, he had a natural empathy for others and the courtesy that went with it. He was a serious man, with a strong sense of duty, yet he had a dry, sometimes impish sense of humour. At his 100th birthday celebration at Lake of the Woods, a social obligation he resisted as being an awful lot of fuss , we had a chance to pay tribute to his many fine qualities: his kindness, his integrity, and his innate modesty. Dad sat in his chair, listening patiently, while his great-grandchildren leaned confidently on his knee and shared his cake. Dad was a very lucky man, and knew it. He loved Winnipeg, and was honoured and touched to receive the Order of Manitoba in his last year. He lived at home with his wife till his final days, still following politics, still making his own breakfast, still able to get out and about, and with every hair he was born with. He leaves behind his wife of fifty-five years Meribeth; his children Sanford Riley (and wife Debbie), Patrick (and wife Deborah), Nancy Riley (and husband Blake Murray), Susan and Andrew Coyne; as well as eleven grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. The family would like to thank the fourth floor, Station 4 staff at Seven Oaks Hospital for their wonderful care and attention. A celebration of his life will be held on Sunday, November 4 from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the Manitoba Club, 194 Broadway, Winnipeg.

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Oct 20, 2012

Condolences & Memories (4 entries)

  • Uncle Jim, how lovely for Mamie to have you as a bridge partner and for Dad to have you as a friend. He too knew why the sky was blue. - Posted by: Kate Stobie Heald (Niece) on: Nov 04, 2012

  • Much of what I know about my Uncle Jim is from stories I've heard throughout my life. We left Toronto in the summer of 1964 so we've not had much of a connection to the Riley/Coyne family over the years. I was 9 years old at the time we left. I remember when Aunt Meribeth and Uncle Jim lived on Heath Street in Toronto, and I remember playing with my cousins at their house which was very close to my grandparents house. Sandy and Patrick were older so they didn't have too much interest in their younger cousins, but they certainly put up with us. I remember how much they loved hockey! Susan and Andrew would have been extremely young so I can't remember them very well, however I've had a chance to see them over the last several years. Nancy was about our age so we would play with her. I remember feeling very welcome and at home whenever we would visit. The house was full of life with five children. Uncle Jim was kind and patient with us as children. I remember him as a rather quiet man but one I looked up to. Now that I am quite a bit older, and I've spent so many years researching our family, I am so amazed and impressed at Uncle Jim's character and values. Rarely do you find an individual who is willing to stand up for what he believes in and speak out as vocally as he did. He was a man of great strength and what an excellent role model. He was a wonderful husband to my father's little sister and a terrific father to my five cousins. I can only imagine what my life would have been like had we stayed in Canada and been more involved with our family. The stories I've heard are remarkable, nothing but the kindess words. What a long life, full of adventure. We should all be so lucky and I am very fortunate to be able to say he was my uncle. I know you will be missed but now you and Dad can have some engrossing conversations in heaven about politics! Rest in Peace Uncle Jim and give my love to Mum and Dad. Love, Elizabeth - Posted by: Elizabeth Bauer (Stobie) (Niece) on: Nov 02, 2012

  • When I saw the name James Coyne.....my first thought was....could this be the REAL Great James Coyne?!! I knew he hailed from Winnipeg.... his career in Ottawa.....but it has been so long since we saw anything about him in print. What surprised me was that he was a centenarian! There is so much comfort and pride in knowing that Manitoba produced such a wonderful family man, a great and solid citizen. I was born the year he became of age, though does anyone remember when one became of age at twenty-one? He was born on Winnipeg's T.Eaton Co.'s 5th birthday, July 17th. My grandmother was born July 17, 1880....it is also the birthday of one Kristin, who actively worked hard to save the Winnipeg Eaton Building and the birthday of one of my great nephews who turned 11 this year. James Elliott, your legacy is such a tribute for Manitoba, Canada and History! I envey the beautiful legacy he has left for his dear family. My condolences to each. May you be comforted knowing that friends and people near and far feel for you at this time of your loss. God Bless! Julia Van De Spiegle. - Posted by: Julia Van De Spiegle (Canadian Citizen who remembers well, this great citizen!) on: Oct 18, 2012

  • I read the paper everyday and brouse this section and the picture you posted captured my attention. What an amazing tribute to your dad and what a fufilling life he lead! It makes me wish I knew him. My condolances to your family. - Posted by: anonymous () on: Oct 18, 2012

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