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RUTH ELIZABETH COOKE
Date of Passing: Dec 19, 2012
Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or MemoryRUTH ELIZABETH COOKE (Professor Ruth Grahame, MD, MSc) On Wednesday, December 19, 2012, Ruth died at the age of 87 years from breast cancer. Ruth was born in 1925 and raised in Stony Mountain and Winnipeg. She is survived by her loving husband of 63 years, Robert (Bob) Leighton Cooke, brother Gordon Grahame and four children, Mary Ellen (Toronto), Robert (Toronto, Liesel Putrycz), Andrew (Winnipeg, Pamela Woodmass) and Sheila Cooke-Witt (Hamburg Germany, Karsten Witt). She has 11 grandchildren. Ruth attended Laura Secord and Gordon Bell Schools where she developed lifelong friendships. She graduated from the Faculty of Medicine, University of Manitoba in 1949. In the final year of Medicine, she was voted Senior Stick (Class President) by her classmates and she broke her leg on a class ski trip to La Riviere. While attending hospital rounds in a wheel chair, she caught the eye of a dashing young surgeon who returned from the war. Ruth and Bob were married in December 1949. Reflecting on her long and happy marriage, she would say we laughed a lot and had so much fun! . In the mid-1960s with the enthusiastic support of her husband, Ruth returned to university to earn a Master of Science. She then resumed her medical career in the Faculty of Medicine, Department of Anatomy where she rose to Associate Professor. An entire generation of Manitoban doctors, dentists, physiotherapists, occupational therapists, and dental hygienists were trained by her in Gross Anatomy, Neuro-Anatomy and Embryology. As well she supervised Masters and PhD candidates. She was Undergraduate Curriculum Coordinator for the medical school. She served on innumerable university committees, and co-authored several anatomical text books. She was voted Professor of the Year by the Class of 1974. She retired in 1988. In her personal life, Ruth loved to cook, entertain, and dance. She was an avid reader and a devoted patron of opera and Dixieland jazz. In the summertime, usually on her own, she would fearlessly ferry her four children in a small open boat to a remote cottage with neither phone nor electricity where she dealt with a cranky propane fridge, a wood stove and nosy bears in her kitchen. After retirement, Ruth continued to live life to the fullest, travelling the world with her husband, enjoying her adored grandchildren and participating in the University Women's Club and The Twenty Club. She and Bob took great pride in their children, three MDs and an MBA. A celebration of her life will be held Saturday, January 19, from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at 970 Wellington Crescent. Friends, neighbours and colleagues are all welcome. Her ashes will be placed in a favourite family location. In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the University of Manitoba, School of Medical Rehabilitation. Wojcik's Funeral Chapel in care of arrangements.
Publish Date: Jan 12, 2013
RUTH ELIZABETH COOKE (Professor Ruth Grahame, MD, MSc) On Wednesday, December 19, 2012 Ruth died at the age of 87 years from breast cancer. Ruth is survived by her loving husband of 63 years, Robert Leighton Cooke; brother Gordon Grahame; four children, Mary Ellen (Toronto), Robert (Toronto, Liesel Putrycz), Andrew (Winnipeg, Pamela Woodmass) and Sheila Cooke-Witt (Hamburg, Germany, Karsten Witt) and 11 grandchildren. Ruth was born in 1925 and raised in Stony Mountain and Winnipeg. She attended Laura Secord and Gordon Bell Schools where she developed lifelong friendships. Ruth's father was a dentist and a pragmatic Scot who insisted that if she was to go to University it should be in something practical. Ruth graduated from the Faculty of Medicine, University of Manitoba in 1949. Her final year in Medical School was memorable. She was voted Senior Stick (Class President) by her classmates and broke her leg on a class ski trip to La Riviere. It was while attending hospital rounds in a wheelchair that she caught the eye of a dashing young surgeon returned from the war. Ruth and Robert (Bob) were married in December 1949. Reflecting on her long and happy marriage she would say we laughed a lot and had so much fun! In 1951 Ruth and Bob moved to New York City with their first born and a second child was born there. While Bob pursued further surgical oncology training at Memorial Sloan Kettering, Ruth and the children explored New York and Ruth began a lifelong fascination with American history and politics. This was a golden time for Ruth and fondly remembered for the rest of her life. After four years they returned to Winnipeg where they welcomed two more children to the family. In the mid-1960s with the enthusiastic support of her husband, Ruth returned to university to earn a Master of Science. She then resumed her medical career in the Faculty of Medicine, Department of Anatomy where she rose to Associate Professor. An entire generation of Manitoban doctors, dentists, physiotherapists, occupational therapists, and dental hygienists were trained by her in Gross Anatomy, Neuro-Anatomy and Embryology. As well she supervised Masters and PhD candidates in their medical research and publications. She was Undergraduate Curriculum Coordinator for the medical school. She served on innumerable university committees, and co-authored several anatomical text books. She was voted Professor of the Year by the Class of 1974. She retired in 1988. In her personal life, Ruth loved to cook, entertain, and dance. She was an avid reader and was able to hold forth with wit on many a topic. She was a devoted patron of opera and Dixieland jazz. In the summertime, on her own, she fearlessly ferried her four children in a small open boat to a remote cottage with neither phone nor electricity where she dealt with a cranky propane fridge, a wood stove and nosy bears in her kitchen. After retirement Ruth continued to live life to the full, traveling the world with her husband, enjoying her adored grandchildren and participating in the University Women's Club and The Twenty Club. She and Bob took great pride in their children, three MDs and an MBA. The last year of her life was a struggle with recurrent breast cancer and progressive dementia, but overall her life has been blessed with family happiness and professional success. A wake will be held on Saturday, January 19, 2013 at 2:00 p.m. at 970 Wellington Cres. Her ashes will be placed in a fond family location. In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the University of Manitoba, School of Medical Rehabilitation. Wojcik's Funeral Chapel in care of arrangements.
Publish Date: Dec 22, 2012
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jan 12, 2013
Condolences & Memories (10 entries)
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Growing up with the Cooke family at the lake, I have fond memories of Mrs Cooke from early childhood on. The cottage days were such a happy time for us all. Mrs Cooke was such a lovely warm person and remained a compassionate and loyal friend to my mother. - Posted by: Fiona Gunderson (Friend) on: Jan 19, 2013
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Ruth Grahame was a mentor, colleague and friend to many faculty and students in the School of Medical Rehabilitation. She is remembered fondly for her passion for her work, her positive outlook and and her always respectful good humour. Her support and promotion of the School of Medical Rehabilitation is much appreciated. - Posted by: Emily Etcheverry (Colleague and current Director of Medical Rehabilitation) on: Jan 16, 2013
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Dad spoke of Dr. Ruth Cooke often, as they worked together on planning of the anniversary of medical students from University of Manitoba. - Posted by: Dr. Donald Magee & family (Friend ) on: Jan 14, 2013
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Ruth Graham (as I knew her) was a colleague interested in Rehab and MSK issues. She was a real gem and I was always delighted to have her on a mutual committee as she was a clear thinker with very practical solutions. It was a pleasure and honour to have known her and worked with her. Her memory and contributions will live on in the issues and people whose paths she crossed. Sincere condolences to husband Bob, son Robert and the entire Cooke family. As Ruth would have said.... Per ardua ad astra. - Posted by: Merv Letts (Colleague and Friend) on: Dec 31, 2012
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Hi Sheila: So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. It is very sad to lose a parent, someone who has been with you your entire life. She sounded like a wonderful person, and has obviously passed on her passion for life to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Susan. - Posted by: susan Jaehn-kreibaum (Friend of Sheile Cooke-Witt) on: Dec 26, 2012
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My heartfelt sympathies to all of you. Ruth was a longstanding friend, never to be forgotten. - Posted by: Mary James (Friend of the family) on: Dec 23, 2012
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Time spent with Dr. Cooke were some of the best years of my life at Manitoba Health. I am certainly happy that i did talk with Dr. Cooke & Ruth not to long ago. They were a great couple.With heartfelt sympathy Gary & Marge Schmidt - Posted by: Gary & Marge Schmidt (Co Worker & friend of Dr. Robert Cooke & Ruth Cooke) on: Dec 22, 2012
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My sincere condolences to Dr.R.L.Cooke and family at this time. Dr. Grahame was a very accomplished woman. - Posted by: Lyla Bilton ( Mrs. " B " ) (friend, ( and former member of surgical team at HSC OR. )) on: Dec 22, 2012
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Ruth Grahame's help as a mentor and kindness as a friend was invaluable to me and to many other junior colleagues, as well as to her students. Her warmth and insight saved the day many times for me. Ruth's love for her family and her good humour at work created a positive atmosphere wherever she was. - Posted by: Jean A Paterson (colleague and friend) on: Dec 22, 2012
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Ruth Cooke was a role model for so many young women in Winnipeg. Growing up a few doors down from the Cookes, I watched as this highly intelligent, gorgeous and vivacious woman managed a great career, four kids and her much loved Bob. All of the Wrights are thinking of you as you say good-bye to your wonderful Mom. - Posted by: Angela Wright (Friend) on: Dec 22, 2012

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