ABBEY DELANEY RUCHKALL

Condolences & Memories (54 entries)

• Dear Julie-Ann, My deepest condolences and prayers are extended to you during this very difficult time. Rest assured that Abbey will always live in your heart and that one day you will be together again. - Posted by: Kim Hominuk (Co-worker) on: Aug 28, 2013

• Don, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Thinking of you at this time. Cherish all the beautiful memories. - Posted by: Lisa Goulet (Friend of Don) on: Aug 27, 2013

• Julie-Ann, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am so sad to hear about Abbey and I can't imagine the heartache you and your family are feeling right now. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this incredibly difficult time. - Posted by: Susan Ward (Co-worker) on: Aug 26, 2013

• Truly a unique indiviual, beautiful within and out. crisp style that only she could pull off. a woman of the arts and soul, no one can ever compare. Rip Beauteous one - Posted by: Kendra () on: Aug 25, 2013

• i had no idea i would be so saddened by the loss of a stranger to me. i did not know your daughter at all, in fact my only encounter with her was when she helped me prepare for my trip to ireland when i went in to lush. i remember being so taken by her hair, and yes those red lips :) she was so very kind and was so thoughtful when making suggestions. she made me feel like i was the only person in the store, and like we'd been friends forever. i left the store thinking that i should call the manager and let them know that they made a great choice hiring her. when i returned a week later with my sister, i had hoped she would be there to help us because i wanted my sister to meet her; as we were walking in i had described her only as "this cute girl with red lipstick and a vintage style happening. she's so sweet!" and wanted my sister to see what i meant :) there's something to be said for a person who can touch a complete strangers' life in just a few minutes. i am sure you are very proud of the woman she had become, i only hope that my children will have such a sweet soul like your daughter did! i am deeply sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Dawn (just a customer at lush) on: Aug 24, 2013

• Although my time with Abbey was short, she was such a bright, determined, and beautiful person. At LUSH Abbey was always wearing a smile, and had a way with connecting to others. I only wish I would've had the chance to see her within the theatre world she loved so much. As someone else with epilepsy, Abbey gave me someone to talk to, and under the circumstances. all my heart goes out to you and your family. I'll always remember you, your talent, and your bravery. - Posted by: Jessy Ross (former co-worker) on: Aug 24, 2013

• Julie-Ann, Don & Harris, I am very saddened to hear the news of Abbey's passing. My deepest sympathy & sincere condolences go out to you all. You are in my thoughts & prayers. - Posted by: Lisa Paulenko (Friend) on: Aug 23, 2013

• J-A and family, there is really nothing we can say that would ever address what you're feeling right now. But as you look back on these comments in the days and weeks and months ahead, we're sure what will stand out will be a very amazing young lady, surrounded by a loving family, who are surrounded by loving friends. Take care. - Posted by: Kevin & Lori Toner (Coworkers to J-A) on: Aug 23, 2013

• I have fond memories of Abbey in my classroom. She will always be remembered for her kind generosity of spirit and sense of humour. My heart is with you at this difficult time. - Posted by: Karen Boily (Abbey's grade 1 teacher) on: Aug 23, 2013

• Don, Julie-Ann and Harris - my thoughts are with you in this difficult time. I hadn't seen Abbey in a while but I have lots of fond memories of my first niece. She had obviously matured into a beautiful young woman and will be missed by a lot of people. Take care of yourselves. - Posted by: Norm Shelton () on: Aug 23, 2013

• To Julie-Ann and her loving family; the loss of a loved one before their time is truly a difficult one. Abbey's spirit will live in you forever and it is those memories that help you to persevere. Thoughts and prayers are with you. - Posted by: Randy Thompson (Friend of the family) on: Aug 23, 2013

• Our deepest sympathies. Jules, Don, & Harris, our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. - Posted by: Shawn & Lisa Dagg (Family Friend) on: Aug 23, 2013

• I am so very sorry and saddened to hear of the loss of your daughter Abbey. What a beautiful and talented young lady. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory that you can treaasure and no one can steal. ~ Irish Proverb ~ My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. - Posted by: Linda Warywoda (Co-worker) on: Aug 23, 2013

• Our thoughts and prayers are with you - Posted by: Maureen, Ian, Lee, Ryan, Travis Reynolds and families () on: Aug 23, 2013

• Dear Julie-Ann & Family We were so saddened to hear about your profound loss. Our paths in life crossed but briefly but long enough for us to share in your grief. Know that our family cares and sends our sincere condolences. - Posted by: Marvin & Mary Procyshyn (Friends) on: Aug 23, 2013

• Such a funny and nice girl taken way too soon. Our hearts go out from The Gander Family to Jules, Donnie, Mr. Harris and Mya. - Posted by: Trent Gander () on: Aug 23, 2013

• I was so sad to hear about this. This is one person any could pick out of a crowd. What a completely beautiful person she was. From the little encounters I had with her and how highly everyone spoke of her, it was a sure thing. Deepest condolences to the family and friends. - Posted by: Alex Swan (Fellow student) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Julie -Ann & Don, my deepest, deepest sympathy to you and your family . . I was so sad to hear about Abbey . . . I will always remember her big, beautiful eyes . . and the last time I chatted with her at Grand Beach . . she was enjoying the sun 'n the beach!! You are in my thoughts & my prayers at this most difficult time. - Posted by: Shannon Joseph (Friend) on: Aug 22, 2013

• I am saddened to hear of your tragic loss and pray the memories of your extraordinary daughter give you comfort in the days ahead. - Posted by: Debra Wutke (Friend of Don) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Julie Ann, my husband, Jim also lost his daughter 3 years ago. She was 27 and She was my stepdaughter since she was 2 yrs old. Tonight we were sitting on our deck at the lake looking at a beautiful sunset, and sparkling water, thinking of you and knowing your sorrow. We are here if we can help in any way. The road is long - Posted by: Carol tomes (Mother of af a friend ofnJulie Ann) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Julie-Ann, Don, Harris and family, Gosh....there are simply no words to express my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I did not know Abbey as the young woman she stunningly grew up to be. From what I see, she made her presence in this life uniquely, genuinely, lovingly and beautifully known to that which all who knew her could only love her. In your tears, may you come to know the embrace of sweet memory. Holding you all close in my thoughts, heart, and prayers. - Posted by: Kim Turman (Jensen) () on: Aug 22, 2013

• Our deepest sympathies to Julie-Ann, Don and Harris. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. R.I P. Abby.... - Posted by: Goring Family (Friend) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Abbey had to be one of the kindest people I have ever met. Her confidence was absolutely amazing and her spirit will live on through every person she had ever met. The good go young - Posted by: Meg (Old Friend) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Jules I last remember spending some precious time with Abbey when we attended the last GWL convention in Orlando. The magic of Disney was the perfect setting in which to best appreciate Abbey's spirit and acting aspirations. One only needed to spend a few minutes with her to realize she was truly a very special child. Love and Hugs. - Posted by: Martyn Daly (Co-worker to Julie-Ann) on: Aug 22, 2013

• I used to work at Lush with Abbey. We hardly had shifts together or spoke to each other, but I knew that she always had a smile on her face, was super friendly, bubbly, and had her own fabulous style which made her unique. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends during this difficult time. RIP Abbey - Posted by: Shalaka Godse () on: Aug 22, 2013

• I remember you and I sitting and sharing stories about our kids over a business dinner a couple of years back. We especially discussed our beautiful daughters who shared the same medical challenge, Epilepsy. I remember how your face lit up with pride and joy as you spoke of Abbey! Her candle surely did burn bright and not long enough for you. Her bright light will shine in your heart forever!! My heart truly is with you in this difficult time Don, and all of your family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do, even if you just need to talk. Cathy - Posted by: Cathy Byrnes (friend of Don) on: Aug 22, 2013

• I love Abbey's sense of style and her great red lips! I always think of her coming to my classroom with a smile on her face and her "hi Madame!" I will miss Abbey so much, this is a great loss. My deepest sympathy for her family. - Posted by: Sharla Cockriell (Math teacher) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Julie-Ann, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Lori Krutish, GWL - Posted by: Lori Krutish () on: Aug 22, 2013

• I worked as set crew captain and she was in the set of the Diary of Anne Frank production at Miles Mac. I saw her around frequently but rarely had a conversation with her. I do remember her being bright and happy and creative every time I saw her. I am so saddened by this and I send my condolences to her family and close friends. - Posted by: Jenna Nowicki (Fellow Student) on: Aug 22, 2013

• I'm so sorry for your loss, Julie-Ann. My thoughts are with you and your family. - Posted by: Lindsay Pawlyk (Friend of Julie-Ann) on: Aug 22, 2013

• The day I met Abbey she walked through the front door, her smile lit up the room along with the beautiful red lipstick. Abbey always had lots to say in such an upbeat way, her stories were filled with laughter any many surprises (should I have said that). Abbey although it has been awhile you were often thought of. Rest in peace Abbey. You will be truly missed - Posted by: Shawn Mrs O (Daughters friend) on: Aug 22, 2013

• It seems just like yesterday that Abbey sat on our dinner table holding my little poodle name Abby on boxing eve. She was joking around and laughing. Her beauty could not be missed. All my guests admiring this beautiful smart young lady. Don and family words can not explain your hurt but I know her wonderful memories will cary you through this sad time. She sure will live on in our hearts. Hugs and love. RIP beautiful smart funny Abbey. - Posted by: Laura Akong (Don friend) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Julie-ann, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Gale, Joey, Roger, Dave, Joan CPBI Golf Committee - Posted by: CPBI Golf Committee (friends from work) on: Aug 22, 2013

• My deepest sympathies Julie-Ann to you and your family. Thinking of you all during this difficult time. - Posted by: Christine Motuz () on: Aug 22, 2013

• So extremely saddened to hear of your loss. No parent should experience such a thing, however you were so lucky to have such a wonderful blessing of such a beautiful, gifted and talented child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. - Posted by: Nicole Agnew (Friend) on: Aug 22, 2013

• I did Not know Abbey, I did know some of her Wonderful Family, hearing of this broke my heart. Just looking at her pictures I can see the love they shared. I can't imagine how hard this must be for everyone close to her, as her pictures and stories have touched my heart. My condolences to her family and friends. Keep her memories close to your heart, those you will have forever R.I.P Abbey. - Posted by: Julie Moffatt (Friend of the Family) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Abbey possessed a fun personality that just filled the Miles Mac theatre. A true scene stealer with her amazing expressions. I really enjoyed being a part of her high school theatrical career. Missed, but not forgotten. Give them heaven up there Abbey! - Posted by: Mike Neale (Educational Assistant at Miles Macdonell Collegiate) on: Aug 22, 2013

• Abbey, you had the most beautiful sense of style. I really wish I had told you how much I admired your sense of fashion, and I am still so saddened to hear of your passing. You were way too young, and my heart goes out to your poor family. I'm sorry I didn't take the chance to get to know you better. Rest in peace, beautiful girl. - Posted by: Stacey Simundson (former colleague in high school) on: Aug 21, 2013

• Abbey and I went to high school together. Although we were different ages, we found each other in choir class. I taught and mentored Abbey (along with the rest of my tenor section) for hours and hours before and after school; She really gave everything her all. Even though singing wasn't her passion, she still knew how to shine like the star she was on stage. My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of this wonderful girl. - Posted by: Matthew Kaisaris (Friend/Teacher) on: Aug 21, 2013

• Abbey's laughter will forever be a part of my heart. Trips to Gimli with Abbey and my daughters Brittany and Emily will always be part of my favorite memories. Abbey and Brittany used to laugh so loud, dance around like goofy kids...and when they were quiet you knew they were having indepth discussions about boys! How lucky I am to know my daughter had such a wonderful friend to grow up with - Abbey was one of a kind and so very special. Her soul will always be a part of my household and she will always have a huge part of the excellent memories I have of raising my children. Thank you Abbey for being such a wonderful influence to those around you and for making such an impact on this earth. Heaven is that much brighter with your smile. Rest in Paradise. - Posted by: Tracy (Mom of her friend Brittany) on: Aug 21, 2013

• Rest in peace beautiful girl, I'll miss your smile more than anything. - Posted by: Kayla Smith () on: Aug 21, 2013

• So sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Abbey. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Cheryl Bercier - Posted by: Cheryl Bercier (Co-Worker (Julie-Ann)) on: Aug 21, 2013

• May all the memories of Abbey continue to live on in the hearts of all that knew and loved her. Abbey was one of a kind, her bubbly outgoing personality and her smile and laugh is what I will remember her most by. To Don, Julie-Ann and Harris, heaven received an angel that will forever be watching over all of you. Please take comfort in knowing that your daughter/sister has left her mark in this world and we're all better people for having the pleasure of knowing her… R.I.P Abbey … - Posted by: Beverly & Jenessa Sutherland (Family Friend) on: Aug 21, 2013

• Julie-Ann, my sincere sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. - Posted by: Leslie Patterson (Friend of Julie-Ann) on: Aug 21, 2013

• We were the luckiest girls to have Abbey in our lives, as she was like that older, wiser sister to us. We remember looking up to her as she would show us how to do fun things like put our makeup on, and all we wanted was to grow up so we could be just like her. Abbey was someone special, we remember how she could sit and read a book for hours straight, then of course the moment after, we were bugging our mom to buy us a book just like Abbey. And she taught us things in life that we could never forget. Like it would be impossible to catch a turtle in a pond. We laugh at the thought of these fun moments and insides. She intrigued us, and made us want to grow up and become young adults just like her. Joyful, beautiful, fearless, courageous and full of passion. We couldn't have asked for better memories than the ones we have shared playing, laughing and getting in trouble with Abbey and Harris. From going to their apartment at the time and swimming in the pool together, or every summer going camping at Blue Lake, or even getting chased by a dozen wasps in a hiking trail... Those memories will never leave. The four of us shared some really fun times that are a huge part of our childhood memories. Together we were fearless. In the last couple years, we would still be intrigued by how talented and incredibly friendly she was with us. We would always stop in to see her and say hello when we were at the mall and passing by her work, we loved to hear what she was up to and how things were going. We were so thrilled for her to be going to Toronto after witnessing her talent for so many years. We know that the passing of Abbey doesn't mean it ends here for her, and for everyone, for we know that Abbey is in a good place, happy. She will never be forgotten, for the memories we have, thanks to her will be with us our whole lives. Thank you Abbey for inspiring us to be fun, loving young women who make the most out of life. - Posted by: Justine and Sarah Magny (friends) on: Aug 21, 2013

• I don't know your daughter but saw her at the festival. You couldn't help notice the red lipstick. But not only that.. I remembered her having fun.... Almost like her own character in her own production. I hope she gets to entertain amongst former and current stars as she too looked like one. My condolences. - Posted by: Laurie (Fringe festival ticket holder) on: Aug 21, 2013

• I am so very sorry to learn of Abbey's passing. May He who knows your sorrow bring peace, comfort, and healing to your soul. - Posted by: Tammy Reid (Stewart) (Freind of Don) on: Aug 20, 2013

• Thinking of you, Julie-Ann, and your family during this very difficult time. - Posted by: Kim Middagh () on: Aug 20, 2013

• Our thoughts and prayers are with don, julie, harris and families at this time of your deepest sorrow. - Posted by: arlene and bill reynolds (Aunt and uncle) on: Aug 20, 2013

• Our deepest sympathies to your family. Abbey was simply a gift to know she would light up a room and we are grateful for knowing her. Ironically cutting her hair as small child then Bria becoming friends with Abbey our family is blessed with knowing her beautiful spirit. Our thoughts and prayers Brenda (Lee)Rocchio - Posted by: Brenda Rocchio (friend ) on: Aug 20, 2013

• We watched Abbey grow from a little babe, to a beautiful and vibrant adult with a free spirit and dreams yet to be. We'll all miss you terribly Abbey. Stay shining, and be the star you were meant to. Love you! Chris and Larry - Posted by: Chris and Larry Cowan (family friend) on: Aug 20, 2013

• I was so sad to hear the news about Abbey. My fondest memory will always be the school trip to New York in her Grade 12 year. Her love of Theater was so infectious and she was certainly in her element in New York. My prayers go out to your family. Abbey was a beautiful soul. - Posted by: Dean Finlay (Former Vice Principal - Miles Macdonell) on: Aug 20, 2013

• I first met Abbey in the audition room. I knew in moments that I wanted her in the show but didn't know where to put her. She was vibrant and sweet and had a killer fashion sense. I ended up giving her a harder monologue but she gave it her all and I was proud of what she accomplished. She was a treasure and a pleasure to direct. We will miss her greatly. - Posted by: Hannah Foulger (Director- the vagina monologues ) on: Aug 20, 2013

• I am so sorry to hear Abbey will not be with us in body anymore. She definitely will be in spirit. I can't imagine what you are going through. My thoughts go out to you. I remember Abbey and Kaitlin going to U of M day camp together from work. Kaitlin didn't know anyone and befriended Abbey and she still remembers Abbey to this day. Our condolences. - Posted by: Shiela Eyolfson (Co-worker) on: Aug 20, 2013