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REESA AVERBACH 1950 - 2013 (nee WHITE) Reesa quietly left us on September 12. Profoundly sad and grieving our loss are husband Michael, son Abram (Fiana), and her brother Sheldon White. She was predeceased by daughter Alyssa, her parents Becky and Max White and mother-in-law Anna Averbach. Reesa grew up in Winnipeg, graduated from Grant Park High and began her University studies that were put on hold early in second year. Following a whirlwind long distance courtship, while only 18, she agreed to marry. When Anna suggested that she was too young, Reesa protested confidently "well I am almost 19". So began a loving, passionate journey of nearly 44 years, now ended,far too early. The first four years were in Toronto. After a "honeymoon" of only 48 hours, she walked down the street and immediately found work. A few months later, she began studies at George Brown College and gained a certificate as a Child Care worker. This work was in group homes with at risk youth in managed care. This was stressful and occasionally dangerous work that she continued after returning to Winnipeg in 1973. She wanted to make a difference to kids and help them grow. Ultimately she completed a B.A. from the University of Manitoba. For the past 20 plus years Reesa had a career in the school system as a program manager. School to work transitions, career days, take your kid to work, career intern mentorship, job shadowing and placement, resume writing are only some areas of her involvement. She had a diverse skill set: organized, disciplined, focused, determined, articulate, tireless, loving, nurturing. Although not a teacher she was passionate about education. She creatively influenced curricula by bringing workplace to the classroom to prove the relevance of the lesson unit. She mentored and influenced many during her career. Her professional career was overshadowed by her family achievements as a wife, partner, friend and parent. She had steadfast values - honest, sincere, caring, - always placing everyone's needs ahead of her own. Our beautiful Alyssa was born in 1977 and Abram in 1980. Alyssa became ill at the age of 5. Surgery, radiation and other treatments followed until her passing in 1994. Alyssa rarely allowed her issues to keep her from normal youthful activities. But when the teasing and staring affected her, Reesa was there to right her ship. She was so proud of Abram's achievements and the person he has become. She was so happy and thrilled to dance at his wedding only two years ago, just as she was beginning treatment. Reesa was not demonstrative or showy, but the strength of her character was evident by her action. Her grace and dignity during her illness was inspiring. She wanted no pity and kept her sense of humour and nurturing until the end. A beautiful person and a wonderful partner. We appreciate the care, sensitivity, and respect of her physicians Ted St. Goddard, Piotr Czazkowski, Jeremy Lipshitz, and also the care at Victoria General Hospital CancerCare. If so desired donations in Reesa's memory may be made to the Jewish Foundation of Manitoba, CancerCare Manitoba or a charity of your choice.
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Sep 21, 2013
Condolences & Memories (6 entries)
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I went to school with Rita at River Height Jr. High School for two years before I left Canada for California. She was energetic, friendly and had an outgoing personality evidencing compassion to those in need. I didn't return to Winnipeg until I was in my 20's and that was just for a short visit. I never saw her again. As I read the tributes to her, I couldn't help but notice how her strength of character which first showed evidence in Jr High grew stronger as she grew older. My best wishes to the family though this is written many years later. I wanted you to know that she touched people you have never met and never knew. Sheldon might remember me but not likely. - Posted by: David Sayles (Friend) on: May 23, 2020
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Reesa was an inspiration. She was a strong, supportive loving mother. One of Alyssa's doctors called her the "redoubtable" Reesa Averbach, and that was the truth. The word redoubtable has connotations of reverence and one truly revered Reesa for her remarkable courage and strength. She was an extremely supportive friend both to me and my sister, and we deeply valued her realistic and humorous view of the way the world "turned." She was unabashedly honest, unafraid to speak the truth and loving. A jewel. W - Posted by: Diane Simkin Demeter (life-long friend) on: Sep 17, 2014
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Reesa and I were in aerobics classes together for several years, and I always enjoyed seeing her. She danced to her own music, so to speak, and could always be found at the back of the class, where there was lots of room for her creative moves. She often complained about the loudness or selection of tunes - or the music being too darn fast! She was hilarious and good fun to be around, and always had a good heart. I will miss her! Sincere condolences to her family. - Posted by: Cynthia Stewart (friend) on: Sep 30, 2013
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While we will miss you forever, you remain firmly planted in our hearts till the end of time. We had the privilege to be your close friends and admire your qualities as a wonderful mother, wife, community leader and friend. Rest in peace, our dearest Reesa. - Posted by: edward and sabina baral (friends) on: Sep 25, 2013
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Reesa gave me the opportunity to get back into the workforce after being a stay home mom. She also taught me lots, which helped me get to where I am today. I will always be grateful and she will be missed. My condolences go out to Reesa`s family. - Posted by: Monica Morin (Ex- Career Intern) on: Sep 21, 2013
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Sympathy is best felt, not heard. In every memory...love lives on. Thinking of you at this difficult time. - Posted by: Kim Peturson (coworker and friend..) on: Sep 21, 2013