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MARILYN HUBAND

Date of Passing: Dec 03, 2013

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MARILYN HUBAND (nee MACFARLANE) Marilyn Huband (Mickey to many) who died on December 3, 2013 was a remarkable lady... She did the usual things: she married, had three children, and managed a busy household for many years. These achievements are not to be glossed over, but there was much more to tell. After marriage to Charles in 1954 she taught Grade One at Cecil Rhodes School for a few years while supporting her husband's education and career. She then raised three children - David (Christina) in Toronto, Nancy (Ron Puttaert) and Barbara in Winnipeg. She will also be greatly missed by her three grandchildren, Emma and Steven Puttaert of Winnipeg and Eddie Huband of Toronto. Without in any way diminishing those attributes, she was more than a wife, mother and grandmother. At a relatively young age she became an important volunteer at Westminster United Church. She served on the Board of the church in a variety of capacities, including Chair of the Board. She was a member of the choir at Westminster for over 50 years. She visited shut-ins on a regular basis. As a leader in the church her role was always to perform every task that she might ask others to do. When she was a relatively young mother herself, she began a program out of Westminster Church, called Mothers' Morning Off. Under her guidance that program continued for 29 years, providing social activities for hundreds of young mothers. On a regular weekly basis the participants would meet - sometimes just for coffee, and sometimes to meet a guest from her formidable list of artists, authors, musicians, scholars, and even judges. The mothers involved made lasting friendships with each other and with Marilyn. Her scope of volunteer activities extended well beyond her church. She supported her husband's political career, first in municipal council, and subsequently as a candidate for and leader of the Liberal Party in Manitoba. She travelled the province with her husband, became an effective fund raiser, both before and after husband's appointment to the Manitoba Court of Appeal. She was an accomplished pianist, with an interest in classical music, which ultimately led to her participation on the board of the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra. She became its second chairperson, but more importantly, she served on the Board of the MCO for many years, and was instrumental in organizing some of the MCO's most successful fundraising events. And, as many patrons of the Orchestra will remember, she was also a consistent greeter / ticket taker at all MCO concerts. Her name was so associated with the Orchestra that some, who were aware of her involvement, began to call it "Mickey's Band". Marilyn had a gift for persuading people to support her causes. Over the years she helped to raise funds for Westminster Church, the Liberal Party, the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra, Prairie Theatre Exchange, the University Women's Club and the United Way. Marilyn was recruited to be the Executive Secretary of the Canadian Club in Winnipeg. She occupied that post for eight years during which the organization thrived. Her interest in the arts was not confined to one organization. In 1979 she was appointed to the Canada Council for the Arts as the representative for Manitoba, and she served in that capacity for six years. Throughout that time she was in constant contact with the artistic organizations in Manitoba, and worked diligently to see that their needs were met. She also served on the Board of Regents of the University of Winnipeg for two terms and became an active participant in the University's activities. Throughout the years, she was chatelaine at 232 Yale Avenue and at the cottage on Mackies Island near Kenora. Her friends were legion and they will remember her passing with sadness. It was a life well led. Even as Alzheimer's disease robbed her of her abilities, both mental and physical, she never failed to have a smile for those who paid her a visit. She was a remarkable woman. After cremation there will be a remembrance service at Westminster United Church at the NW corner of Maryland and Westminster on Tuesday, December 10 at 11:00 a.m. Reception to follow at the Church. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Westminster Church Foundation, the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra, or a charity of your choice.
Publish Date: Dec 7, 2013

MARILYN HUBAND (nee MACFARLANE) Marilyn Huband (Mickey to many) who died on December 3, 2013 was a remarkable lady... She did the usual things: she married, had three children, and managed a busy household for many years. These achievements are not to be glossed over, but there was much more to tell. After marriage to Charles in 1954 she taught Grade One at Cecil Rhodes School for a few years while supporting her husband's education and career. She then raised three children - David (Christina) in Toronto, Nancy (Ron Puttaert) and Barbara in Winnipeg. She will also be greatly missed by her three grandchildren, Emma and Steven Puttaert of Winnipeg and Eddie Huband of Toronto. Without in any way diminishing those attributes, she was more than a wife, mother and grandmother. At a relatively young age she became an important volunteer at Westminster United Church. She served on the Board of the church in a variety of capacities, including Chair of the Board. She was a member of the choir at Westminster for over 50 years. She visited shut-ins on a regular basis. As a leader in the church her role was always to perform every task that she might ask others to do. When she was a relatively young mother herself, she began a program out of Westminster Church, called Mothers' Morning Off. Under her guidance that program continued for 29 years, providing social activities for hundreds of young mothers. On a regular weekly basis the participants would meet - sometimes just for coffee, and sometimes to meet a guest from her formidable list of artists, authors, musicians, scholars, and even judges. The mothers involved made lasting friendships with each other and with Marilyn. Her scope of volunteer activities extended well beyond her church. She supported her husband's political career, first in municipal council, and subsequently as a candidate for and leader of the Liberal Party in Manitoba. She travelled the province with her husband, became an effective fund raiser, both before and after husband's appointment to the Manitoba Court of Appeal. She was an accomplished pianist, with an interest in classical music, which ultimately led to her participation on the board of the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra. She became its second chairperson, but more importantly, she served on the Board of the MCO for many years, and was instrumental in organizing some of the MCO's most successful fundraising events. And, as many patrons of the Orchestra will remember, she was also a consistent greeter / ticket taker at all MCO concerts. Her name was so associated with the Orchestra that some, who were aware of her involvement, began to call it "Mickey's Band". Marilyn had a gift for persuading people to support her causes. Over the years she helped to raise funds for Westminster Church, the Liberal Party, the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra, Prairie Theatre Exchange, the University Women's Club and the United Way. Marilyn was recruited to be the Executive Secretary of the Canadian Club in Winnipeg. She occupied that post for eight years during which the organization thrived. Her interest in the arts was not confined to one organization. In 1979 she was appointed to the Canada Council for the Arts as the representative for Manitoba, and she served in that capacity for six years. Throughout that time she was in constant contact with the artistic organizations in Manitoba, and worked diligently to see that their needs were met. She also served on the Board of Regents of the University of Winnipeg for two terms and became an active participant in the University's activities. Throughout the years, she was chatelaine at 232 Yale Avenue and at the cottage on Mackies Island near Kenora. Her friends were legion and they will remember her passing with sadness. It was a life well led. Even as Alzheimer's disease robbed her of her abilities, both mental and physical, she never failed to have a smile for those who paid her a visit. She was a remarkable woman. After cremation there will be a remembrance service at Westminster United Church at the NW corner of Maryland and Westminster on Tuesday, December 10 at 11:00 a.m. Reception to follow at the Church. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Westminster Church Foundation, the Manitoba Chamber Orchestra, or a charity of your choice.
Publish Date: Dec 6, 2013

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Dec 09, 2013

Condolences & Memories (16 entries)

  • First knew Marilyn as a young mother at Lake of the Woods where she & the Charles visited Dr. & Mrs. Allan Huband, Charle's father, who was a dear friend of my father, Norm Brand. She was always full of energy and fun and going to the movies, could pass as a kid. Through the years we would see them golfing or visiting with their many friends on Mackies Island. Her life was happy and full of accomplishments. Our regrets to the whole family, especially to Charles. Dave & Marilyn Gourley - Posted by: Dave & Marilyn Gourley (Long time Family Friends and related through my sister Eleanor's marriage to Rolph Huband ) on: Dec 10, 2013

  • Marilyn and I were friends back in the 50's when I first came to Westminster Church. Her life story encompasses everything I knew and loved about her. The years have passed since we have been in touch, but my memories of her are precious. My condolences go out to her family. She will be missed. - Posted by: Alene Anderson (friends from Westminster United Church) on: Dec 09, 2013

  • I met Mickey when I joined the Westminster Choir and enjoyed her as an artist. Later while working as Secretary at the church for a short time, I got to know her in some of her other capacities and marveled at her energy and spirit. Her dedication and humility were admirable and she had room in her heart for all. My prayers and sincere condolences go out to her family and friends as people like Marilyn Huband are a blessing in our lives and I know how deeply her presence will be missed. - Posted by: Monique Graboski (Choir Member) on: Dec 08, 2013

  • Charles, I hold you and your family in my prayers. Your loss is shared by so many. "Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates." - Posted by: Lynette Miller () on: Dec 07, 2013

  • Sadness fills my thoughts for all of you, especially Mr. Huband after such a long and eventful life and marriage shared with a wonderful woman. [Mom would want her wishes sent to ... maybe they will meet up with each other again.] - Posted by: Gini Lauder ([Daughter of Kaye Lauder]) on: Dec 06, 2013

  • Marilyn or Mickey was such a special person. Caring, always thinking of others. We knew her from the Church, and from the broader community. Our sincere condolences to Charles and the family. - Posted by: Mary and Richard Scott (Friends) on: Dec 06, 2013

  • My sincere condolences to Charles, David, Nancy and Barbara. She was a truly remarkable woman who touched and improved many lives. My thoughts are with you in your grief. - Posted by: Ross Upshur (Friend of Barbara) on: Dec 06, 2013

  • I am in Bangkok, Thailand, at the moment and just read about Marilyn's passing. It is with a real sense of sadness learning of this news. Charles and the family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of loss. I was one of those mothers from Mothers Morning Off that benefited from her energy, ideas and innovation for motherhood. She was a wonderful role model and inspiration. She has left a legacy of being engaged at all levels of community, church and music organizations in our city. She will be missed. Most sincerely, Phyllis Reader - Posted by: Phyllis Reader (Friend) on: Dec 06, 2013

  • On behalf of the Fred Family, condolences to Charles and family. Our thoughts are with you. - Posted by: Tom & Betty Anne Fred (Friends) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • I knew Mickey for 63 years.... ever since my brother Charles began dating her in the 50's. She was the most wonderful addition to our family. I was in awe of her enthusiasms, her many talents, her energy and her accomplishments. She was also a lot of fun. My semi annual trips to Winnipeg to visit Mickey and Charles were among the highlights of the year. I will miss her. - Posted by: Mary Huband (Sister in law and friend) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • I only met Marilyn one time when my Mom took me to work at their home. My mother spoke frequently and fondly of her right up until she passed this time last year. I remember the numerous times that my Mom was given a ride home with lots of clothes which she made to fit us. She always said we were the best dressed kids thanks to Marilyn. She was kind and gracious friend to my mother and mom never felt like just an employee. On behalf of the Dyck family we send our condolences. - Posted by: Marlene James (Dyck) (Daughter of an old friend) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • Mickey, Dave's Mom, or Mrs. Huband - I knew her as all three of these. Regardless of her role or name, her humour, her humanity and her warm heart always shone through. I cannot count the times I saw her ready smile, hearty laugh and wit come forth. I spent many, many happy times on Yale with David, and often Nancy and Barb and Mrs Huband, as I usually called her, was always a presence in that home. A family is always greater than the sum of its parts, and Mickey was the hub of the family. I know that Charles, David, Nancy and Barb are feeling this loss most acutely and my heart goes out to them. I am one of many others who feel this loss very much as well. I feel very fortunate to have known Mickey and wish her well in the next phase of her journey. The world is a better place after her time here. - Posted by: John Campbell (Friend of her son David) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • She was a great person and we are sorry for your loss. As we are away for the winter we will not be able to attend the funeral, our thoughts will be with you. - Posted by: Lawrence and Lynn Heise (church members) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • I knew Mickey best when I was a child in the 60's and 70's. She was always cheerful and kind and so full of energy! Whenever I was at the house, she was invariably preparing for the next get-together she was hosting for one group or another. Always on the go. I expressed a liking for her lemon tarts once and she brought over a tray of them as a Christmas present! I was in awe when she appeared on the cover of the Observer! Nothing but happy memories of Christmases shared and summers down at the lake and watching her sing in the church choir. - Posted by: Philip Huband (nephew) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • My condolences to Charles and family. I had never met Marylin but heard Charles talk fondly of her. Her life story is a tribute to giving all that you can for the betterment of others. A wonderful woman, wife, mother and grandmother. - Posted by: Gary Seveny (Friend) on: Dec 05, 2013

  • So sorry to hear of Mickey's passing. She was a unique person who enriched so many lives. She will be missed. - Posted by: James Manishen () on: Dec 05, 2013

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