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MARY LOU MARGARET STOKES

Born: Jul 29, 1938

Date of Passing: Jan 02, 2014

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MARY LOU MARGARET STOKES Mary Lou Margaret Stokes (nee Jacklin) received her angel wings on January 2, 2014 after a hard fought battle with Cancer. Her final days were spent surrounded by family, friends and unwaivering love and dedication on the part of her husband of 57 years, Bill Stokes. She had asked him to help her on her journey and he did just that, never leaving her side. Mary Lou leaves to grieve her husband Bill, her son Bill Jr. (Kim), her son Doug (Myrna), her daughter Karen (Jeff), her sister in-law Betty Stokes, brother in-law Chuck Stokes (Lynne), brother Grant Langston, brother Ken Langston, sister Corrine Scott and lifelong friend Sylvia Burdey. Mary Lou leaves to grieve numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents Ruth and Archie Langston, in-laws Helen and Harold Stokes, sister Dorothy Evans, brother Norman Jacklin, and brothers in-law George and Robert Stokes. Mary Lou was born July 29, 1938 in Windsor, Ontario. Mary Lou was brought up in Thunder Bay, Ontario and moved to Winnipeg when she was seven years old. Mary Lou attended Pinkham, Hugh John MacDonald and Daniel McIntyre for her schooling. Mary Lou was a great wife, mother and grandmother. She was an avid supporter of her family. She was always a big supporter of her son Doug's MJHL Coaching Career and would attend all his games. She never missed her grandchildrens' special activities such as sporting events, school plays, choir performances, etc. She always thought of her family and friends before herself. Mary Lou was very fond of saying to her husband "it started out as just the two of us; just look at the big mess we have made." It was a great source of pride for her. Mary Lou was a very hard worker her whole life. She worked for Shell Oil for 31 years retiring in 1991. She then found herself at Sears Canada for another 21 years. She loved gardening and music. She enjoyed 27 years of vacations in the Caribbean. She enjoyed playing cards, shopping trips to the States and casino trips. Mary Lou was a member of the ANAF John Osborne #1 for 40 years. She enjoyed many fun times at dances, dinners and wine and cheese parties. She enjoyed being a member of the Jolly Seniors. Cremation has already taken place as per Mary Lou's wishes. The family would like to extend an invitation for everyone to join us in a celebration of Mary Lou's life on Tuesday, January 7 at 1:00 p.m. at the ANAF John Osborne #1 at 360-1395 Ellice Ave. Reverend Robert Campbell of Westminster United Church will preside. Luncheon to follow. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to CancerCare MB in Mary Lou's memory. "Because of you, because of the stories you've told, the love you've given and the memories we've shared we know where we come from and what it means to be loved." "Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly"...it's time to fly now! We will love you forever and always. xoxoxoxo

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As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jan 06, 2014

Condolences & Memories (17 entries)

  • Dear Bill and Family, I was sorry to hear of Mary Lou's passing. She was always a dear friend to my Mom and our Family. I have so many fond memories; that I will always treasure. Sorry that I was unable to attend her service; please know that I was there in thought. Love, Janice - Posted by: Janice Westman (nee Abramson) () on: Jan 18, 2014

  • Bill and Family sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. - Posted by: Gail Hiscock (cousin) on: Jan 09, 2014

  • Bill & Family, so sorry to hear of Mary Lou passing. I know you will miss her, she was a wonderful lady. You are in our thoughts & Prayers. Ed & Lil - Posted by: Ed &Lil Palidwor (Friend) on: Jan 08, 2014

  • Stokes family...we were very sorry to hear about hear about Mary Lou. We know you will miss her very much. - Posted by: Colleen Pingert and James Dahlin () on: Jan 07, 2014

  • I missed Karen in my last posting. So sorry for your loss Karen - losing our mother is one of the hardest things, if not the hardest thing, we will ever experience. My thoughts and prayers are with you. - Posted by: Maureen Quinsey (Friend) on: Jan 07, 2014

  • Dear Doug, Bill, Myrna and families. My sincerest condolences on the loss of your dear mother. I was unable to attend the funeral due to work. Thinking of you all - May God comfort you. - Posted by: Maureen Quinsey (Friend) on: Jan 07, 2014

  • Bill and family. My deepest condolences on your loss. - Posted by: Gord Stokes (2nd cousin-in-law) on: Jan 07, 2014

  • Our condolences to Bill and the entire Family. - Posted by: John Corrigal & Family (Family friend) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • So very sorry Doug, Myrna and family. Always so hard to lose a loved one. No words can help to ease your pain. But know that we are thinking of you at this time. Draw strength from family and friends. Your memories will help to see you through the hard times. - Posted by: Bob and Barb Frost (Friend) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • We will always remember your love and laughter you will be dearly missed. Love you always Love Tammy, Krista, Jenna, and Brayden - Posted by: Tammy Stone (Family) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • Doug & Myrna, my sympathies to you on the loss of your Mom. I remember her from Blues games and how supportive she was of your coaching. May the memories you have of her and the knowledge that people share in your sorrow help you transition to life without her. My prayers go with you and your family. - Posted by: Ginny Thiessen () on: Jan 06, 2014

  • Goodbye MaryLou. Your wonderful smiles will be missed. - Posted by: Glenn Peckover (Colleague from Shell Canada in the 60s.) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • So sorry for your loss, may the many happy memories you all share help you through this difficult time. - Posted by: Perry and Lori Willett (Friends of family) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • I'm So sorry for your loss, i'm not too sure if i've ever gotten the Chance to meet you, but i know My cousin Chasity has told me wonderful things and we are a close family, i feel like i knew you well. may you rest in peace and free of pain now. Sending my strength to you all in this sad time. - Posted by: Angel Premack (Chasity Premacks Cousin ) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • It is with deep sorrow that we have to say good bye to a beautiful Lady!!!!! We love you Auntie Marylou and are going to miss you so dearly, until we meet again. I wish our miles didn't separate us but you were always in our hearts! xoxo - Posted by: Penny, Samuel, Shawn, Ashley, Brittany and Joshua (family) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • My condolences to Bill and the Family ---- Such Sad news --I have very fond memories of Tootsie, she was always very good to myself and Tammy...She was such a good person, she will not be forgotten. My thoughts are with you all. - Posted by: Linda May Rieger (former Sister in Law) on: Jan 06, 2014

  • If feistiness and determination were all that were required to beat an illness, Mary Lou would have won her battle with a one-two punch. It was an honor and privilege to have known her and spend time with her, Billy and the family over the years. They are a family that love being together and certainly know how to enjoy themselves. Our deepest sympathy goes to each and every one of them. You are in our thoughts and prayers. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten..... - Posted by: Peggy Merrick and Heather McCheyne (Long-time family friends) on: Jan 06, 2014

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