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BRENDAN CAMERON COHOE
Born: Mar 16, 1985
Date of Passing: Mar 11, 2015
Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or MemoryBRENDAN CAMERON COHOE March 16, 1985 - March 11, 2015 What a wonderful gift we had with our beautiful Brendan in our lives. He was kind, considerate, compassionate and caring, intelligent and inquisitive, determined, incredibly patient, and always positive. He was a loving and caring brother and son with a wide taste in books, music and film and a devilish sense of humour. His quiet, calm exterior and physical appearance belied an absolute mountain of inner strength that was unassailable by any adversity he encountered in life. Brendan was born in Winnipeg and spent three years in Ottawa where he attended junior kindergarten. The family returned to live in West St. Paul where Brendan attended kindergarten through Grade 8. He was a good student and an active and energetic child. He spent hours outside with his brother and sister and friends playing in the yard making snow forts and tree forts, swimming in the pool in the summer, skating and snowmobiling in the winter. He loved spending time at his grandparents in Pilot Mound and on the Baldur farm, and playing with friends and cousins there. He played organized sports in baseball and soccer with West St. Paul before finding his passion in football with the Nomads. The family had a fabulous European vacation in 1997, visiting Switzerland, Germany, Austria, Italy and France where we had a great visit with family and saw lots of the French countryside. Brendan lost some weight over this vacation, initially thought to be due to his dislike of some European food. Some months later the truth was discovered as he was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumour. The surgery for this "very treatable" tumour left him unable to move, talk or swallow. Brendan persevered, and while enduring the effects of chemotherapy and radiation, regained his speech and some motor skills. While still recovering, he suffered the devastating loss of his older sister, mentor and protector, Ashleigh Erin Cohoe, in a car accident. A highlight for Brendan after his ordeal was a trip to Australia granted by Children's Wish Foundation. We saw a huge part of the country. Despite his disabilities and the state of his recovery, he managed to snorkel off the Great Barrier Reef. Confined to a wheelchair and with other physical disabilities, Brendan persevered and graduated from Garden City Collegiate in 2003. He graduated in 2007 from the University of Manitoba with a BA degree in Psychology and Economics. He did have numerous summer jobs including MTS and Manitoba Hydro, where he made some lasting friendships. The permanent job market proved more difficult. Brendan never complained, he persevered and kept on trying. Finally, thanks to his mom's intervention with Bob Brennan and Manitoba Hydro's hiring program, Brendan got on with Manitoba Hydro where he spent the last three and one half years. Brendan's quiet charm and positive outlook gained him many friends at Hydro. At age 25, to help gain some independence and home skills, Brendan moved out to Ten Ten Sinclair in Winnipeg. As he learned how to get around the city with Handi Transit, he made a friend who helped him get moved into independent housing co-op units at 200 Watson St. As soon as he was hired on at Hydro, the housing co-op rent became unaffordable so Brendan, with family's help, purchased a condo not far away. Brendan lived there for about a year before he had the opportunity to purchase a home in Crescentwood right next door to his brother. Sadly, he lived in his ideal home for less than a year before being diagnosed with a second brain tumour that ultimately took his life. Brendan was an avid reader of novels, investment, health and self-help books, and had subscriptions to half a dozen magazines. He had an impressive investment portfolio and was partners with his brother in some rental properties. His movie and music collection was extensive, and he was an incurable shower singer. He was incredibly thoughtful of others, and always knew the appropriate and unique gift to buy. We are so happy that his health was good enough to travel with us and spend his last six months travelling to the Panama Canal and Phoenix, and visiting with many relatives and friends. Brendan was always calm and positive in his outlook, and rarely complained about anything. Every single doctor and nurse who treated him could not believe how easygoing he was no matter what treatment he was being subjected to. His standard response to "How are you?" was "Good". On his final day, unable to speak, he'd respond to our questions with a thumbs up sign. Some of his final handwritten messages to us included "Luv u guys" and "B OK" . Brendan will be lovingly remembered and sadly missed by his dad and mom, Peter and Joanne, and younger brother Dylan, his grandfather and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and all his friends. Brendan has now joined his sister to watch over us as guardian angels. A celebration of Brendan's life will be held Monday, March 16 (his 30th birthday) at 1:00 p.m. at the Sunova Centre, 48 Holland Road, West St. Paul, MB. In lieu of flowers, donations in Brendan's memory may be made to CancerCare Manitoba (Brain Cancer Research), 675 McDermot Ave., Winnipeg, MB R3E 0V9. 204-586-8044
Publish Date: Mar 14, 2015
BRENDAN CAMERON COHOE March 16, 1985 - March 11, 2015 On Wednesday, Brendan Cameron Cohoe passed away in Calgary, Alberta. Complete obituary to follow in Saturday's edition. Cropo Funeral Chapel, 204-586-8044
Publish Date: Mar 12, 2015
CROPO FUNERAL CHAPEL
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Mar 14, 2015
Condolences & Memories (31 entries)
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I wish i would have known Brendan he sounded like a brave wonderful son. I often wonder why bad things happen to good people like your Son and Daughter but i can assure you they are in a safe place and believe you will see them again when it is your time. I am so sincerely sorry for the lose of both of your kids. I lost my 3 year old due to a heart transplant that never came in time and even though it hurts so much now you will never forget them you will carry their memories in your hearts. My daughter has been gone 14 years now and she would have been a young lady but she will be forever young as your children. Try to be strong for your family and call a place listed in the phone book that is a support group for people that have lost children. They kept me sane and able to cope the operator will know the number. Again i am so terrible sorry be good to yourselves during this awful time in your lives and take good care, Jacie H. - Posted by: Jacie Hamalainen (I wish a friend when he was here..) on: Jun 15, 2015
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Joanne, Peter & Dylan How saddened we were to learn of Brendan's passing. May the many memories you shared together as a family bring you peace. You're in our hearts. - Posted by: Donna & Cal Rawluk ("Old" neighbours from Garden Grove) on: Apr 02, 2015
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Our sincere condolences to the Cohoe family. Our thoughts are with you at this time. - Posted by: Graham & Susan Paul (Friend) on: Mar 22, 2015
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I am so sorry for your loss. I remember after Brendan had his first bout with cancer, Ashleigh was so protective over him. She was always trying to cheer him up, making him dance to whatever music, making him smile and giving him some well deserved hope. You have 2 beautiful angels watching over you now and Brendan was blessed to join his sister in heaven, waiting for the day they will see you again. You are in my thoughts and prayers. - Posted by: Nikki Kolthof (nee Horsman (Good friend of Ashleigh) on: Mar 21, 2015
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Albert Clermont's family was so sorry to hear of your loss. May memories of the years together warm your heart until we all meet again. - Posted by: Carol Clermont-Kletke (cousins) on: Mar 21, 2015
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Dear Joanne, Peter and Dylan.... our condolences on the passing of Brendan. We are also very sorry to have missed this posting as we would have wanted to share the celebration of his life last Monday. Our prayers and thoughts are with you always. We were happy to read about your adventures together over the past few months, as they will be greatly cherished. Brendan was blessed to have such a great and loving family. - Posted by: Guy, Jan and Dayna (Friend and co-worker of Peter...) on: Mar 20, 2015
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My sincere condolences to you Peter, Joanne & Dylan on the loss of Brendan. He accomplished much despite the adversities he faced. A life well lived. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. - Posted by: Marilyn McLaren (Family friend/acquaintence from Pilot Mound) on: Mar 18, 2015
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Peter, Joanne and Dylan, we are sorry for your loss, our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you. - Posted by: Arlene & Robert Ferguson (Neighbours from Garden Grove) on: Mar 17, 2015
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My thoughts are with the Cohoe family. May peace be with Brendan, and may his memories comfort you forever. "B Ok!" - Posted by: Craig Sheard (Friend and Co-Worker) on: Mar 17, 2015
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Peter and family, I am so sorry for your loss. What a treasure to have had Brendan in your lives. You and Brendan are in my thoughts and prayers. - Posted by: Cindy Wright (Past co-worker of Peter's) on: Mar 16, 2015
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Peter, Joanne & Dylan, May you always hold fond memories of the time you had together. My Deepest Sympathy. - Posted by: Mary Townsend (Co-worker of Peter) on: Mar 16, 2015
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Peter, Joanne and Dylan - I cried unashamed at the beautiful tribute to Brendan. No words speak to the love you have in your family and that will help you through these tough times. Big Sister has him under her watchful eye now so he will be safe. My thoughts and prayers are with you. - Posted by: Neil R Murray (Friend and co worker) on: Mar 16, 2015
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Mr. & Mrs. Cohoe - words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. The memories Brendan and I shared at school, sports and Church will be forever remembered and cherished. RIP my friend - your son will never be forgotten. - Posted by: Kyle Lamirnade (Friend) on: Mar 16, 2015
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I have wonderful memories of growing up with the Cohoe children. Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your son. You have endured more sorrow than any parent ever should. May God and the love of friends and family provide you strength. - Posted by: Lynne Flanagan (Friend of Elizabeth and Maggie(hometown of Pilot Mound)) on: Mar 16, 2015
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It was a great pleasure to meet your whole family a few years ago. The few times I met Brendan he always had a smile on his face. He was always positive :) May memories of the fun you shared bring you gentle comfort. So sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Aphrodite Whyte (Arizona friend) on: Mar 16, 2015
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So sorry for your family's loss, Brendan has left a lasting legacy. Our sincere thoughts and prayers. - Posted by: Dan and Norma Klassen {Marrinhurst} and Pilot Mound (friends of Brendan's Grandparents) on: Mar 15, 2015
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Peter, JoAnne and Dylan. I am very saddened to learn of the loss of this very special son and brother. He carved a place in many hearts and I am sure a piece of your hearts has just broken. Am thinking of you at this sad time. - Posted by: Sharon Litzenberger (Co-worker and friend of Brendan's dad Peter) on: Mar 15, 2015
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I was deeply saddened to hear of Brendan's passing. He has been fighting this battle for so long and the pain your whole family has endured is beyond comprehension. I still think of Brendan running like the wind while playing football and the antics of all our boys at your house with the potato gun. Ashleigh will look after him again so you don't need to worry about him anymore. May all your wonderful family memories bring you comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Kim Kurylo (friend and co-worker) - Posted by: Kim Kurylo (Past co-worker of Peter) on: Mar 15, 2015
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Dear Joanne, Peter and Dylan, You may not remember meeting me but I am a friend of your cousin Linda. We met at her Tupperware party and I never forgot you. The story of your daughter Ashleigh's commitment to Brendan before her accident touched me and the memorial on the highway keeps her and you in my thoughts. I am deeply sorry to hear of Brendan's death and send you my thoughts and prayers for continued strength, peace and comfort. Reading the story of his life is compelling in how rich a life he truly had, a testament to the loving, caring environment I believe you gave him as a family. - Posted by: Monique Graboski (Acquaintance) on: Mar 15, 2015
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Brendan inspired us by how he lived his life. He never gave up and always had a kind cheery word for you. My condolences to all of you. The heavens have gained another star. - Posted by: Dawn Turner (Co worker) on: Mar 15, 2015
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So very sorry for your loss Pete & Joanne. My thoughts are with you and your family. - Posted by: Susan Peterson (Martin) (Hometown friend) on: Mar 15, 2015
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Have fond memories of Cohoe family growing up in Pilot Mound. Brendan's grandfather was our Family Doctor for many years. I did not have the privilege of knowing Brendan but am touched by hearing about his lif'es journey. My sympathy to Peter, Joanne and family on your loss. - Posted by: David Stemler () on: Mar 15, 2015
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My sincere Sympathy to you Joanne and family on the passing of your son Brendan. My thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time and will be in the future. One never knows how hard our lives will be and that is so very good, but remember all the good times that you had with Brendan. He was an encourager, but he will not have to suffer anymore. Think of the pleasant things about him. My Prayers are with you, Doreen - Posted by: Doreen-Ruth Dick (Friend of Joanne, from Tupperware, as Managers, we were more in contact with each other.) on: Mar 14, 2015
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Such a brave young man. Brendan will be missed. I went to elementary, middle years and high school with Brendan. He was smart, clever and persevered. He was a perfect example of how to challenge the world and yourself and not let something hold you back. My thoughts are with the Cohoe family during this difficult time. - Posted by: Darcie Ward (Childhood schoolmate) on: Mar 14, 2015
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Forever young and forever loved. I'm very sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Pam (seven oaks school bus driver) on: Mar 14, 2015
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He's Only Gone on Ahead-Author Unknown He's only gone on ahead of you, Not just left you behind. Although you can't be with him right now, He lives on in your heart and mind. The day will come when you'll meet again On Heaven's distant shore, And the two of you will walk hand in hand Together forever more. Brendan, I have always admired your inner strength and love of life and family. Your positive outlook continues to be an inspiration - thank you. - Posted by: Nickie (Family friend) on: Mar 14, 2015
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I am so sorry to hear of your very sad lose. My sympathy is extended to you and your family, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Brendan was a very exceptional young man and will be missed by many. - Posted by: Greg Speirs (Past Co-worker with Peter) on: Mar 14, 2015
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Brendan to me was one of the greatest friends a young boy could of had. The first time we met we had a sand fight. From than on we spent allot of time together as neighbours am became good buddies. We had so much fun and laughs together. Dylan can testify to some of our adventures, because where ever Brendan and I went Dylan wouldn't be to far behind trying to get in on the adventures. Brendan gave me memories that I will keep forever. As well Ashleys great spirit that us kids always looked up to. I never got the chance to thank Brendan... So thank you, to the best childhood friend ever. My thoughts an prayers are with the Cohoe family. - Posted by: Richard Burr (childhood friends and neighbour ) on: Mar 14, 2015
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Peter and Joanne, and Dylan, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son and brother Brendan. May all your wonderful memories keep you strong at this difficult time. - Posted by: Suzanne Anderson (Past Co-worker with Brendan's Dad, Peter.) on: Mar 14, 2015
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Hi Joanne...I knew of your son's illness through Facebook but didn't know how extraordinary he was. The obituary was beautifully written and is a lovely tribute to his life. I'm so sorry for your loss! Gunny Tennese - Posted by: Gunny Tennese (Colleague) on: Mar 14, 2015
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. He is free from all his problems now and gone to a better place. - Posted by: pat and Jerry dousselaere (aunt and uncle) on: Mar 13, 2015
