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JUDY MCNEILLY

Born: Dec 22, 1943

Date of Passing: Aug 24, 2015

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JUDY MCNEILLY December 22, 1943 August 24, 2015 It is with very heavy hearts we announce the passing of our beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend at the age of 71 years after a brief battle with cancer. Left to cherish her memory is her son Dwight, daughter Cassandra, son-in-law Darcy and the love of her life her precious grandson Emmett. Although their time together was brief, Mom was happy to have had four years with her grandson. She never showed up for a visit without something for him and always wanted to know his latest sayings and actions. She would often say his face was the last thing she'd picture in her mind before going to sleep each night. Also left to cherish her memory is her sister Margie (Edison), brother Mike (Ruby) and her best friend and partner in crime her sister Sheila. They did absolutely everything together and were extremely close. She will also be lovingly remembered by numerous nieces and nephews. She shared a special bond with her niece Sheila (Anne) as well as her cousin Dolly (Nanny) who was always so good to her. She leaves behind a long list of friends especially close friends Pat, Alan and Don as well as her "Work Buds" who were all an important part of her life. She touched so many people with her kindness and generosity often taking gifts to work for her co-workers or their kids. Mom was born the eleventh of twelve children to Margaret and Isaac McNeilly. Along with her parents, she was also predeceased by her siblings Walter, Leonard, Jimmie, Rita (Ron), Joan, Peter, Annie (Cliff) and Pat (Richard) as well as her brother in law Harvey. Mom was an extremely hard worker who enjoyed a long career working several years as a key punch operator at The Bay, followed by nearly 25 years at MTS working on the Help Desk where she would trouble shoot network issues. She was extremely bright and although that job was stressful, she loved it. She finished her working years at Wawanesa where she made many lasting friendships and was well respected by her co-workers and bosses alike before she retired in December 2011. Mom taught us so many valuable lessons. She taught us to work hard and what it meant to be fiercely independent. She filled our childhood with music, dancing and fun and passed on her love of music to us. There were many McNeilly gatherings filled with family, food and card games that went into the wee hours. She was always the life of the party. She was an eternal optimist and taught us that even when life wasn't perfect to just keep going. She was quick to laugh loved a good joke and never took herself too seriously. She never ended a conversation without saying I love you and would always let us know how proud she was of us. Her passing has left a hole in our hearts that can never be filled. We'd like to thank the staff at Concordia Hospital; especially the nurses who bonded with and took exceptional care of Mom. Special thanks to Leann who would go above and beyond for whatever Mom needed. As per Mom's wishes, cremation has taken place and there will be no funeral service. You can honour Mom's memory by listening to some Tina Turner or Bob Marley, having a glass of wine and playing some cards or simply doing something kind for someone. Because Mom was such an animal lover, for those who choose, donations may be made to the Winnipeg Humane Society. Memories can be shared by signing the book of condolences at www.wheelerfuneral.com Love you Mom. Thank you for being you. "Don't worry about a thing cause every little thing is gonna be alright" -Bob Marley

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Aug 29, 2015

Condolences & Memories (10 entries)

  • So very sorry to hear of Judy's passing.My thoughts & prayers are with the family during this difficult time. I met Judy at MTS many years ago. We both attended fitness classes during lunch hour at MTS. After hours there were many get together at her house dancing to Tina Turner! Judy was such an inspiration to everyone, always had a smile, always had a compliment, had a heart of gold, no one loved life more than Jude, but Most important were her dear children which she was so proud of. Her children were her life's treasure. I am so blessed to have known Judy. She will always have a special place in my heart. Memories forever, Love Karen❤️ - Posted by: Karen Tosh (Friend) on: Sep 09, 2015

  • So sad to hear that Judy passed away. I was a friend of hers while working at MTS. We had great times with her and she was always so uplifting and always made us laugh. Whenever we had a get together she would always get me to imitate Tina Turner. I will miss her and to Cassandra and Dwight..your Mom was one special lady - Posted by: Lucille Wilson (Friend) on: Sep 02, 2015

  • I met Judy while working at MTS we became what I think instant friends attending fitness class with Wendy Adams - we formed our own little group outside of MTS - with many get togethers - celbrated birthdays at Judy's complex - she was the life of every party - I am so saddened to hear this news - and will always remember my friend dearly. May she rest in peace. - Posted by: Cathy Maughan (Friend) on: Sep 01, 2015

  • I am so sorry to hear of Judy's passing. She was a spirited lady whom my parents liked and my cousins spoke of dearly. - Posted by: Brenda Burgess (Friend ) on: Aug 31, 2015

  • I am so sorry to hear about Judy's passing. From our weekend shenanigans in the west off Keewatin to McLeod Ave she was great fun(and stern when we got out of line!!)with a huge heart for her kids. Bless you Judy McNeilly I will always remember you're favourite saying "RIGHT ARM!! Rest in peace lovely lady - Posted by: Kerri Mazur(MacCollum) (Friend of Cassandra's ) on: Aug 31, 2015

  • I'm so sorry to hear about Judy's passing. Judy and I were a couple when we were in our early teens. I often thought about her. Like they say you never forget your first love. We sure had a lot in common. And its so strange that she passed away on my birthday. Again so sorry. - Posted by: Gary Hebert (Friend) on: Aug 31, 2015

  • It was an honor to meet Judy. You were a very special, beautiful, and kind lady. You always made me smile even when you weren't feeling the best. I will never forget you! - Posted by: Leanne (HCA @ Concordia Hospital) on: Aug 30, 2015

  • I started working at Hudson's Bay in 1973 as a key punch operator where Judy was my boss. Judy was a great boss. She treated everyone with respect. We became really good friends and because I was new in the country she took me under her wings. She loved to party and was always the life of the party but her first priority was her daughter Cassandra and then later on came Dwight. I had a surprise baby shower for her when Dwight was born. She loved her kids and would do anything for them. Judy did not expect anything from anyone, did not ask anyone for anything but gave to everyone in any way she could help. She loved Captain Morgan and Bob Marley's music. Whenever she would have a dinner party you would be sure there was prime rib roast in the oven. Judy was the type that would give you the shirt off her back. It is with much sorrow that I found out last night Aug 29th that she had passed. I have been trying for the last few years to reach her but could not. today I have pulled out my photo album and I am going through all those wonderful memories. I have pics of Cassandra's wedding and social, pics of Dwight. Judy I can still hear you calling me Shants. That was how she called me. I will always remember what a beautiful selfless person you were. Rest in peace my dear friend. - Posted by: Shanti Borras (Friend) on: Aug 30, 2015

  • It was such a shock to hear of Judy's passing! I met Judy many years ago while I was teaching a fitness class at MTS when she worked there. She was always a hoot in the class and I'm sure motivated a lot of others to come out! Everyone always had so much fun and that time just flew by! The MTS lunch hour fitness class people absolutely "clicked" and we had many outside of work events, parties and get togethers that were always filled with fun, dancing and of course Judy's endearing presence! The real fun didn't start until she got there!! She even organized a surprise 25th anniversary for my husband and I which she hosted at a party room where she lived, even notifying my parents who secretly flew in from Victoria to surprise us. She made many visits to our house and true to form brought little gifts for my young grandsons. They truly adored their "Auntie Judy"! Alas, after leaving MTS we lost touch until one cold day in winter years later I was driving down Pembina Hwy. and saw a familiar face waiting at a bus stop.....I stopped and gave her a ride to work in which time she quickly filled me in on the goings on in her life......oh how I'd wished she'd worked further away so we could have spent more time together visiting. Sometimes life just gets in the way Dwight and Cassandra, your mother was truly a beautiful person, but I think you already know that! I will miss her. - Posted by: Wendy and Dick Adams (friends) on: Aug 30, 2015

  • Although we have only known aunty Judy since 2012 as that is when we found Dennis's birth family, we are truly honored and blessed to have gotten to know this special lady. We always had an awesome time at the McNeilly get togethers drinking wine and dancing (she loved doing the jig with our granddaughter Deserae). She was always so bubbly and true and for that we love you. You will be deeply missed in our lives. Love you always and forever.....till we meet again 💜 - Posted by: Dennis and Debbie Holowka (Nephew and niece) on: Aug 30, 2015

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