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THE REV. DR. BARRY BRUCE DAY
Date of Passing: Mar 09, 2017
Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or MemoryTHE REV. DR. BARRY BRUCE DAY Passed away suddenly in Peterborough, ON, on March 9, 2017 in his 83rd year. Predeceased by his parents Bruce and Greta Day of Winnipeg and his sister Leona Day, he is survived by his sister, Doreen (Jack) Lowe. Devoted husband of Lilia, his life-long soul mate who died so recently. Proud and loving father of Kathryn (David Oikawa); Lorna (David Wilson) and Duncan (Liz Payette) and adoring grampa to Oliver, Simon, Hannah, Sam, Charlotte, Dexter, Neville and Lewis. Barry was a true gentleman and family man with a great sense of humour and a quick wit. He was born in Manitoba and educated at the University of Winnipeg where he met his beloved wife Lilia. Ordained as a United Church Minister in 1958, he served congregations in rural Manitoba and Toronto (Timothy Eaton Memorial Church). Many in the Peterborough and Keene communities will remember him for his leadership, his relevant and touching sermons, his stories, and his compassion. He had the ability to really see people, and he connected with strangers and special friends alike. He showed his emotions easily and the first to weep in the face of beauty. His huge heart found plenty of room for pride in his children and grandchildren, love and respect for his many colleagues, friends and extended family and the deepest most profound love for Lilia, whom he has missed terribly these past months. He was a man of God, who tried to encourage all to follow the Christ-like way. Funeral Service: March 25, at 11:00 a.m. at Trinity United Church, (360 Reid Street, Peterborough). A time of fellowship will follow the service. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the charity of your choice. Arrangements by Comstock-Kaye Life Celebration Centre, (356 Rubidge Street, Peterborough, Ontario, 705-745-4683). Online condolences may be made at www.comstockkaye.com
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Mar 11, 2017
Condolences & Memories (2 entries)
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Our family has a few "legendary" stories about the friendship between Barry and Lilia and my parents Fred and Betty Brooks. In the beginning, Barry and Lilia were new to Burlington and my parents invited them for dinner to help them feel welcome. Mom fussed with some fabulous meal while Dad took inventory of his soft drink supply and polished the crystal water glasses. Dr. Day was a MINISTER, after all. Virtuous, pious, and proper all came to mind. The time arrived and the doorbell rang. The guests were comfortably seated, and perfunctory requests were made as to what their preferred libation would be. With that delightful gleam in his eye, Barry said “a scotch, if you have it please”. Years and many many more gatherings later, Fred and Betty had moved to Peterborough and Barry and Lilia had retired to Keene. Although as I hear it, neither Barry nor Lilia ever retired. Fred was eventually diagnosed with dementia, and Betty continued to work tirelessly in her garden, with Fred observing progress seated on his walker. Sometime later, Betty realized Fred was not in his lookout spot. She looked around the house, and eventually got in the car and drove out to the main road near the house. Several miles up the road, she found Fred walking along the highway shoulder with a newly purchased bottle of gin under his arm. She pulled over, and lowered the window: “Where are you going? Can I give you a lift?” Fred replied that he was on his way to Keene to visit with Barry and Lilia. That was some 20 miles further up the road. This friendship was truly a remarkable phenomenon. From the Brooks clan to all the Days, our sincerest condolences and heartfelt thanks for all the memories. - Posted by: Barbara Spencer (Family friend) on: Apr 28, 2017
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I am so sorry for the loss of your parents' passings. I have such fond memories of his frequent laughs, forever smiles and bear-hugs, and your Mom Aunt Lilia was always so welcoming when we saw each other, getting us cousins all having great fun together. One of my favourite memories of your Dad when he spoke at my mother's funeral service. She could not have had a more honoured tribute, for she so loved and respected her little brother. My heart is heavy today, yet I see him being reunited with his beloved Lilia and parents and big sister Leona. I thank all of your family for the positive influence you had in our early years. Love to you all from Wendy, Eric and family out on Vancouver Island. 🐶💛💟 - Posted by: Wendy Palynchuk (Niece) on: Mar 25, 2017