MURRAY R. DICKSON

Condolences & Memories (9 entries)

• Wow...I just came across this. My condolences to you. Many...many fond memories of Mr. Dickson and the family. - Posted by: Jason Hannah (Family Friend) on: Jun 04, 2018

• We met Murray and Carol when we both purchased homes on a cul de sac in Lethbridge. Michael was the same age as our oldest daughter and they became friends. There were lots of barbecues and house parties as everyone moved in around the same time and were all nearly the same age. We played golf many times and Murray also played on our industrial league hockey team. He once broke his shoulder blade in a game, a very painful injury. Sadly we lost touch over the years and it was only today that while listening to a Carly Simon LP that Murray's name came up and we discovered the very sad news. Murray and Carol were always fun to be around and our condolences go out to Carol, Michael and Daniel. - Posted by: Reid and Marguerite Taylor (Friend) on: Jun 02, 2018

• Dear Carol, Mikey and family, Gosh, I am so deeply saddened for the loss of your gentle, loving, kind-hearted soul "Murray". Such a beautiful man. May his spirit keep flying free and sprinkle his endless love and kindness upon all of us from rain to snowflakes and falling stars and beyond. My thoughts and universal prayers are with you all. Much love-n-hugs...Kimmi - Posted by: Kimmi (Friend) on: Mar 13, 2018

• Dear Carol, I hadn't had a chance to spend any time with Murray in over 50 years but yet I have such vivid memories of growing up with him and our group in Fort Garry. We were a group of 20 to 30 boys and girls who loved sports, riding our bikes and hanging out together. No romances (that would come later) just buds. Bike rides took us through Wildwood Park to Gimsa Hut and back again stopping to play baseball football or basketball. One of our favourite stops was at Murray's house on Wicklow. He had a hoop over the garage and a nice mom who would bring out lemonade if she was home. We were winding down our junior high days at Viscount Alexander and heading for Vincent Massey, which was just opening its door. I still get goosebumps when I think of what those next 4 years were like. Arriving at the same time were two teachers from the Winnipeg School Division and one teacher from Trinidad who would all play key roles in our development. Jim Downey, Vic Pruden and Kelvin Bramadat (who are all now in a variety of sports halls of fame) hit the ground running and shaped Vincent Massey into an athletic powerhouse in Manitoba. We were all good athletes who excelled at a variety of sports.Twice we had years when Massey boys and girls won Volleyball and Basketball provincial championships. I think it has been done twice in the last 53 years. Basketball was Murray's game. He wasn't a guy that caught your eye right away (unless you were a cheerleader) Not the tallest or the fastest of the group but we soon came to know his strengths When we were in tight games, Coach Pruden had a set play for the last 20 seconds of the game. Four players were on the righthand side of the court trying to set up for a last second shot. Murray would slide back to the baseline on the lefthand side of the court, about 15-18 ft from the basket. When the clock wound down to 11 seconds the ball was passed across the court to Murray who was to take the shot with 7 seconds left on the clock, which would allow time for a rebound and and tap in. This play was used for special occasions (Provincial championships, Finals of major tournaments across Manitoba, Saskatchewan and Alberta). It his two years of Varsity I think they might have run the play 5 times. There was never a rebound. Murray was smooth and cool. The bigger the moment the smoother and cooler he was. His ability to hit the big shots under pressure was what made him a key player on those championship team. I think your sons would have enjoyed watching him play. His coolness under pressure came as no surprise to his friends. He was always a laid back guy who didn't get excited about much. I don't think he understood the effect he had on girls back then. He was a complete heartthrob. Handsomer than any guy had a right to be, which the rest of the guys were envious of, but he didn't play it which made it ok. There were so many attractive girls in the group and the school and Murray found his. Remember he seldom missed and he made the right move again asking you out. You were the perfect match for Murray, a perfect compliment to his unflappable disposition. Your enthusiastic,outgoing, fun loving nature was just too much for him to resist. You were, and continue to be a fun person to be around. Looking back it seems you have been a cheerleader for him for life. Sad now, but so much to celebrate what the two of you accomplished and enjoyed for 51 years of marriage. As I write this I'm a little saddened that I hadn't seen him in so long, but there were many good times at the lake and at school for me to remember. Pat and I both will be thinking of you and hope our paths cross again soon under better circumstances. Love Pat and Dennis - Posted by: Dennis Nord (Childhood Pal) on: Jan 30, 2018

• Our friendship started in grade 5 and we shared many good friendships right throughout high school Murray's mom drove he and I downtown to City Hall after school one day to apply for Junior Employment Permits which led to week-end jobs at Eatons. We often travelled to and from work together by bus. Murray was crowned King of the school and his popularity meant he was at every house party. He had terrific athletic ability and proudly wore #5 on the Vincent Massey basketball team. After graduation we all went our own ways. In 1980 he and Carol moved back to Wpg and by chance into our neighbourhood. He and my husband became good friends enjoying fishing trips, golf, and squash at the Carleton Club before it closed. By coincidence we had children born on the same day and they too became friends. He will be missed dearly by all who knew him. Our condolences go out to Carol, Mike and Danny. May he rest in peace. - Posted by: Mark and Joy Buettner (Friends) on: Jan 26, 2018

• I was saddened to hear of Murray's passing. Although I did not know him well, his high school romance and marriage to Carol impacted my life ,as a teenager , just a few years younger than them . They were just a dream couple to me and my dear friend Patti who allowed me to come over and be part of the fun. Over the years I've heard plenty of amusing " Carol and Murray" stories, and I will always remember them as the ideal couple. R.I.P. Murray - Posted by: Barb Chappell (Family friend) on: Jan 24, 2018

• Murray has been part of my life since I was a teenager. He spent a lot of time with our family during his University years and was sort of the Family Boyfriend. We all loved him and were so glad when he and Carol were married. Those two weatherd many curves in the road together and raised two exceptional boys who have become wonderful men. Murray and Carol were a strong team. With so many who appreciated them I send my love. Have a good journey Murray. - Posted by: Patti Johnson (Sister-in-law) on: Jan 23, 2018

• We enjoyed visiting with you and Murray down here in Palm Springs area and playing golf with you as well. we are sorry to hear of Murray's passing and were hoping to see you this winter again. Take care and keep the wonderful memories. The eulogy was lovely and Murray was a good man. - Posted by: Bob and Sharon CUmming (Murray was Sharon's cousin) on: Jan 23, 2018

• Murray was a great friend, team mate and work associate. He lived with my family while attending university and after graduation worked together in Lethbridge and Toronto. My sincere condolences. - Posted by: Barry Marko (Friend) on: Jan 22, 2018