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WENDY FYFE

Date of Passing: Jul 03, 2018

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WENDY FYFE If you could measure one's wealth by the amount of love one gave and received from countless people around them, Wendy would have been the most prosperous person you could meet. Her light shone brighter than most, which was evident to anyone who came across her path, no matter how brief their encounter. She had an exuberant personality which continuously brightened people's days and hearts. It is with immense sadness that we announce her sudden passing July 3, 2018. Known by those closest to her as Wend, mom, mama bear, grandma bear, and sis, she will forever be cherished by the love of her life Ralph, son Richard (Shauna), daughter Janice (Shawn), precious grandchildren, Lucas, Aspen and Julia, sisters, Karen (Mike) Vukets and Shelley (Pete) McGrann, her aunt with whom she grew up like a sister Cheryl (Brian) Gash, sisters and brothers-in-law, many nieces and nephews, and countless friends. She has now reunited with her parents, Rod and Val Stafford, her cherished friend Kerry-Ann Jensen, and our puppy Jersey. Wendy believed to her very core that life did not end with our physical world, but as much as we know she's still with us in whatever form she can be, we will forever miss her smile, infectious laugh, warm conversation, and her infamous heart to heart hugs. Her kind, generous, and ever loving spirit will continue to inspire all of us to be a better person, parent, and friend. Wendy always had loving words for anyone around her, which is why most, including strangers, would often open themselves up and share their stories with her. Her responses often started with the words, "Bless your heart, angel". During her career in real estate, alongside her husband Ralph, she was proud to serve her community with an 'Attitude of Gratitude", but being a wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend were always her greatest priority and areas where she truly excelled. She was an unwavering support to her husband Ralph, an unparalleled mom to Richard and Janice, but being Grandma Bear to Lucas, Aspen and Julia was her most cherished role, one that both thrilled and fulfilled her. A Celebration of Life will take place Tuesday, July 17 2018 from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Evergreen Village, located a few minutes south of the perimeter on Highway 59 (2143 Highway 59 South). There will be a short program followed by conversation and stories. Just like her essence, her wardrobe was full of life and colour. If possible, please wear a bright colour (turquoise and purple were her favourite). Donations can be made to a charity of your choice in Wendy's honour.

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jul 07, 2018

Condolences & Memories (33 entries)

  • Wendy was a dear friend of the extended Neal family. In times of turmoil between Grandma Marnie Austin’s passing, grandpa Neal’s stroke, Peggy’s heart attack and my father Bob Lidstone’s CJD illness she was always in the wings. The hugs from her heart to my heart warms me still. She had the same birthday as grandma Margaret (Marnie) Louise (Austin) Neal. Mumsie was Margaret (Peggy) Jean Neal and Robert (Bob) Ford Lidstone was my father, mentor, spiritual guide and my very best friend. When Ralph and Wendy rented Peggy’s cottage as I attend university studies at Lakehead she would tell me of mums spirit in the old guest room in the rocking chair visiting her. Perhaps many of our Neal family secrets will come to light and we will learn of true friendship and memorial. My Métis cousin Curtis Neal was Uncle David and Auntie Brian’s son. He was a troubled youth with inter generational trauma. I went looking for him a decade ago after finding a gold coin with his name and birthdate in mums vanity drawer. My brother Robbie and I have struggled with indigenous family ties and inter generational trauma. My father’s legacy will not be forgotten. My cousin’s life will not be forgotten. Wendy and Sir Ralph Fyfe are exemplary humanists who raised a loving family. Condolences from my broken heart to yours. Be well. - Posted by: Marnie Lidstone (Friend ) on: Feb 14, 2021

  • Ralph and family Wendy always had kind words of encouragement whenever i saw her. She was always thoughtful reminding Ralph to make sure he had everything when we were heading fishing. She was a great wife and mother. Always a shining smile. We will always remember fondly. Blessings - Posted by: Robert Prystupa (Friend and business associate) on: Jul 25, 2018

  • I'm so sorry for your loss Ralph. Wendy was an extraordinary lady. When she heard that I'd had surgery she showed up with Borscht from Oakwood Cafe because she remembered that I loved their soup. She was so thoughtful and generous to everyone she met. She will be missed immensely. - Posted by: Norma Glenham (Friend) on: Jul 16, 2018

  • Ralph, Richard and Janice, so sorry and saddened to hear of this terrible news. I ran into Wendy two weeks ago for the first time in years, and she expressed such pleasure and interest in meeting and hearing about my life and Chris'. We compared family pictures and stories about our grandchildren and reminisced about years past when Richard and Chris were classmates and friends and when Janice was a bubbly little grade one girl with such a cute way of talking. We were planning to meet just about now. To say I am saddened and shocked is an understatement. Much love to all of you!💕💕 - Posted by: Susan Berry (Friend) on: Jul 16, 2018

  • Dear Ralph and family, Bob and I were deeply saddened when we heard the news of Wendy’s passing. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy to all. Wendy was a beautiful woman inside and out, and I never had a conversation with her where she was not smiling and acting grateful. Hugs and Love sent. Bob/Jo-Anne - Posted by: Bob/Jo-Anne Lowenberger (Friends) on: Jul 16, 2018

  • What a smile......what a spirit!!! A rare mix of beauty and depth. Thanks for the love and hugs!! We will all miss you so much angel. Lorraine - Posted by: Lorraine Hay (Friend) on: Jul 16, 2018

  • Dear Ralph and family, I was deeply saddened to hear about your unexpected loss. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy at this tragic time. - Posted by: Johanne Kjernisted (Friend) on: Jul 16, 2018

  • Ralph, Richard and Janice, my heartfelt sympathies to you all and your families. Wendy was a beautiful women who was always kind and loving. She was a beautiful soul. The world needs more people like her. Sending love, thoughts and prayers to you all at this difficult time. - Posted by: Crystal Kjernisted (Family Friend) on: Jul 16, 2018

  • So sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. As far back as I can remember, Wendy was always so sweet and kind, and always made me feel welcome at the Fyfe home. I still remember having a blast driving to Camp Redrock with her, Janice and a couple other girls in her big grey van. My thoughts and prayers are with the Fyfe family. - Posted by: Ashley Duhame (Childhood friend of Janice) on: Jul 15, 2018

  • Wendy was such a beautiful soul. We will miss seeing her at Dairy Delight for her double scoop maple walnut in a waffle cone. May she rest in peace. - Posted by: Patricia Mikos (Friend ) on: Jul 15, 2018

  • Wendy was a giving/caring woman. She was always there for anyone in need. I met Wendy in grade 10 at Glenlawn Collegiate. We were in the same home room. Went to Junior Achievement together. Some of my favourite times were at Glenlawn Lions games watching Ralph play. Over the next 40+ years our paths create seed occasionally but it felt like only days in between. Lots of hugs and that dynamite smile. My love and condolences to you, Ralph, Richard, Janice and your family. - Posted by: Leslie Gailis (Stimpson) (Friend) on: Jul 13, 2018

  • I am so sad to hear of Wendy's passing and I am so sorry. Two people I have known had absolute pure hearts. Kerri-Anne and Wendy. They were put on earth for a reason and they fulfilled their jobs. I know they are together watching over you. Again, I am so very sorry for you Ralph and your children. As I am also mourning the death of my daughter, I feel the pain in your hearts and my soul aches for your loss. I loved her heart-to-heart hugs. They were always given with love. With much respect, Debbie Ross. - Posted by: Debbie Ross (Friend) on: Jul 12, 2018

  • Dear Ralph and family, sending our most sincere condolences and prayers until we meet in the future. - Posted by: Greg and Lucille McTaggart (Former neighborhood acquaintances ) on: Jul 12, 2018

  • I have so many great memories of Wendy and the wonderful Stafford family from when we were young girls in Lethbridge - our wonderful family holidays together - kick the can games - the warmth, fun, and inclusiveness of Rod and Val. Karen and Shelley - I am so very sad and sorry for the loss of your dear sister Wendy and my thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. - Posted by: Brenda Slater (Graham) (Childhood friend) on: Jul 11, 2018

  • I'd like to send my condolences to the Fyfe family. I was a friend to their family as a child and they were all very loving with the acception of Wendy being like another mother to any one she met. I will always remember her for "bless your heart" and still after 20 years makes me think of her when I hear it. - Posted by: Cristina Durante (Old friend ) on: Jul 11, 2018

  • I am shocked and saddened to hear of Wendy's sudden passing. She has been a customer of ours for years and brought so much positive energy into the store and just recently shared her "heart to heart" with her in the store. She really helped me when my mother Linda passed away a little over two years, giving me healing candles and just letting me know that I will see her again! Please know you too will see her again, that energy of hers has to go somewhere! Till we meet again! - Posted by: Christopher Atkinson (Owner of Lilac Bakery) on: Jul 10, 2018

  • Dear Ralph: Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved wife Wendy. We only wish that we had the pleasure of meeting her but after reading such a wonderful and touching tribute, one gets a sense of knowing what a remarkable woman she was to so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Renee and Cathy (RHC Foundation) - Posted by: Cathy Starr (Work Friend) on: Jul 10, 2018

  • Dear Ralph, Richard and Janice. I am so very sorry to hear about the sudden and unexpected passing away of your dear wife and mother. Wendy was a very special person who had such a loving and gentle spirit. She was always so warm and kind to everyone she met. She had a special way about her and and she touched everyone in a very special way. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you try to find a way to process the loss, pain and deep sorrow you feel at this time. Most sincerely and with love, Ruthe and Wayne Penner - Posted by: Ruthe Penenr (Friend) on: Jul 09, 2018

  • I have the fondest memories of Wendy, lots of laughs, some tears but the best times. Wendy had the best recipes, cookies, gooey cakes and the most delicious dinners. I don’t think Wendy ever had a bad word about anyone...what a treasure. I have really missed her since moving to Calgary. We had a lovely evening out here together. There is something ever so precious about a friend you see after a few years and you pick up just like you talked yesterday. My love and prayers go out to you Ralph. I know what an incredible partnership you shared. To Richard and Janice I send my love to you and your families. You were your mom’s greatest joy. May God embrace you. Love Eileen xxx - Posted by: Eileen Carter (Friend) on: Jul 09, 2018

  • My deepest sympathies to Ralph and family. We who have lost our partner in life know what you are going through. May God grant you His peace and understanding at this time. - Posted by: Larry Linklater (A fellow realtor) on: Jul 09, 2018

  • To all of the Fyfe family. There were so many times I sat and visited with Wendy in her lovely home on the Crescent. Her eyes twinkling. There was love all around. A giggle in her voice. Always happy to see you. She loved her God and her journey in life. I am so so shocked that her journey on earth has ended but I am sure she is on a new journey. Till we meet again. This time the hug comes from me. We will always remember her. Joanne Archibald. - Posted by: Joanne Archibald (Family friend) on: Jul 09, 2018

  • Dear Ralph and family. I was shocked and saddened by the death of this vibrant, loving and generous spirit. I send wishes of peace to the family. Donalda Jones Regina - Posted by: Donalda Jones (Friend) on: Jul 08, 2018

  • Wendy was one of the kindest, most special people we have ever met. She made every single person she met feel like a treasured friend. We are shocked and saddened by her passing. - Posted by: Whitney and Geoff Milnes (Family friends) on: Jul 08, 2018

  • Deepest condolences to Ralph and family. Wendy touched so many hearts with her love and light plus always a big hug. She was one of a kind. ❤️ - Posted by: Shannon Tessier (Friend) on: Jul 08, 2018

  • Wendy coming into the Hallmark Card Shop was truly a gift from God. She loved to hug. Always a kiss on each side of your face. Hearts touching. Heart to heart was Wendy's expression. Wendy radiated the true gift of acceptance and love and embraced being in the moment. Her flowing golden locks were a landmark wherever she happened to be or be going. Wendy called us angels BUT Wendy was and continues to be the true angel to each of us. Hugs always ... - Posted by: Cheryl Hunt (co-owner Hallmark Card Shop, Grant Park S.C.) on: Jul 08, 2018

  • "Heart to Heart "We're not driving the bus" "Stuff and things" A few of her sayings that we will forever remember. Don't know of another person who always so sincerely thought of others before herself. Beautiful bride, most loving mother and grandmother, true friend, dearest angel we will miss you and love you forever. To Ralph and family it hurts to feel your loss, however always remember how extremely fortunate you are to have had Wendy as a real influence in moulding who you are and that will never end. We think of her as being needed somewhere else to give help and love. Much Love and Heart Hugs to you all. She's not far away and will be your guardian angel. - Posted by: Jim & Cherrie Neal (Friends ) on: Jul 08, 2018

  • Ralph, my heart is aching for you and your family. When Blake started kindergarten at Windsor Wilf and I were lucky enough to be introduced to you and Wendy via his classmate Richard. This became a relationship that would carry us through all these years. Wendy was a super mom and the pair of you were exemplary parents. Blake still talks about the Fyfemobile. The world, especially our little corner, has lost one of its brightest stars. Shannon - Posted by: Shannon Philipow (Neighbor and friend) on: Jul 08, 2018

  • I met Wendy where I work. She instantly stole my heart with her 'heart to heart' hugs and her incredible warmth and love. I only met her a few times but she left a mark on my soul. I was shocked and saddened to hear of her passing. I wish I had known her more deeply. Few people leave the heart prints that she did. I will remember and miss her fondly and remain inspired to share the love she freely expressed to everyone she touched. - Posted by: Monique Kendel (someone who's heart she touched) on: Jul 07, 2018

  • Sincere condolences to Ralph and family on the loss of Wendy. As I lost my dear wife Linda two years ago I share your pain. Honour Wendy by being the kind of man she would be proud of. Dan Regan. - Posted by: Dan Regan (Realtor) on: Jul 07, 2018

  • It was with shock and sorrow when we came across Wendy's name in the Free Press Obit. Listings. We would like to extend our heartfelt condolences to Ralph and family and acknowledge your most dignified tribute to this great lady. - Posted by: Cliff and Trish Tottle (Friend) on: Jul 07, 2018

  • I am still in disbelief that my dear and most wonderful friend is not with us anymore. The sadness I feel is overwhelming as I truly loved her, as did everyone who was fortunate to have known her. She was the most remarkable, loving person and her kindness and love shone from her very essence when she was near you. I always felt blessed and fortunate that she was a part of my life for so many years, from the very first day we met at CKND. She uplifted everyone with her genuine caring and thoughtfulness. I learned so much from her. She was always there for me, and everyone else all her family and many many friends. How did she do it? She called everyone angel, but she was the true angel in every sense of the word. Her heart to heart hugs were endearing. You simply could not greet her or leave her without a hug, and you felt her love in those hugs. She taught us all how to give a real hug, and that was just one of her lasting gifts. I know that you are still with us in spirit, and always will be. But my heart wishes that I could still give you hugs, and text you my hugs, and get your hugs back. You will remain forever in my life in so many ways - the books, the tapes, the messages you gave, the birthday and anniversary phone calls that you never forgot! You showed us the true meaning of love. I miss you so much, dear Wendy. You left us way too soon. - Posted by: Marjorie Stevens (A friend since we met 40 years ago at CKND) on: Jul 07, 2018

  • Wendy, my fellow intuitive friend. When Dawn and I meet on Thursdays, as we will continue to do so knowing that you'll be there with us. Dawn and I will always remember to continue life with "Palms Up"! Still in disbelief???? Always your friend, love you! Toni and Adidas. P.s. you knew that you were in Heaven when Jersey Girl was waiting there to greet you! xox - Posted by: Toni Onichuk (Fellow intuitive friend) on: Jul 07, 2018

  • Sad news my thoughts are with Ralph and family. - Posted by: Jim Bell (Friend ) on: Jul 07, 2018

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