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MARY IRENE FENSKE (LYTHGOE)
Date of Passing: Dec 08, 2019
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MARY IRENE FENSKE
(nee LYTHGOE)
Mom has now rejoined her beloved parents, Irene and Jim Lythgoe, her dear aunt Edna Broome and her three adored Scottish terriers, Lady, Maggie and Aran. She is dearly loved and eternally missed by her daughter Mary Fenske Jr., her sister Kathleen Carlow, and many relatives and friends.
Mom was born in Winnipeg in 1941. After graduating from Tec Voc High School, she worked for Winnipeg Police Service, before leaving to raise a family. After many years as a devoted full-time mother, Mom returned to work in the field of geriatric health care, retiring form Charleswood Care Centre in 2008.
Mom enjoyed travelling, visiting Asia, Alaska, Las Vegas, Florida and various other destinations. She was a subscriber to PTE and loved attending the Winnipeg Fringe Festival. Emblematic of her compassion for others, she supported Siloam Mission for many years. Mom never met a stranger and will be remembered for her humour, artistic talent and love of books. Throughout her life, Mom put others before herself and was a selfless, determined advocate for anyone who needed her.
Mom's greatest gifts to the world were loyalty, courage and conviction. Mom faced her final battle with cancer with characteristic grit and determination, as she had all life's previous challenges. Throughout her illness Mom never gave up, never bowed to self-pity, never wavered in her concern for others. Although she has passed into the next world, Mom remains victorious in her tenacious dedication to life, which never faltered.
Special thanks are extended to Mom's GP Dr. Grant Goldberg, Clinic 2 at CancerCare Manitoba, as well as the St. Boniface Palliative Care Unit for their excellent care.
Visitation will be held Thursday, December 19 from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., followed by a memorial service Friday, December 20 at 2:00 p.m., both at Chapel Lawn Funeral Home, Rev. Mary Holmen officiating.
"Hard pressed on every side, but not crushed: perplexed but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed." Cor. 4:8, 9
For those who wish to sign the online Guest Book please visit www.chapellawn.ca
Chapel Lawn Funeral Home
204-885-9715
Publish Date: Dec 17, 2019
MARY IRENE FENSKE
(nee LYTHGOE)
Viewing to be held Thursday, December 19, 2019 from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Service on Friday, December 20, 2019 at 2:00 p.m. Full obituary to follow on Tuesday.
For those who wish to sign the online Guest Book please visit www.chapellawn.ca
Chapel Lawn Funeral Home
204-885-9715
Publish Date: Dec 14, 2019
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Dec 14, 2019, Dec 17, 2019
Condolences & Memories (11 entries)
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It’s been many years, Mary Jr, but I wanted to extend my condolences on the passing of your Mom. I just heard the news thru a relation of yours... My thoughts are with you, as you journey through this difficult time... -Rita Lehmann - Posted by: Rita Lehmann (Junior High Friend) on: Jan 01, 2020
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We would like to extend our heartfelt condolences to you Mary in the loss of your Mom. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Today and always, may loving memories bring you peace, comfort, and strength. Chuck and Irene Martin - Posted by: Chuck and Irene Martin (friends) on: Dec 23, 2019
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My heartfelt condolences to you Mary in the loss of your dear Mom. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Love Debbie (Fenske) Moore and Family - Posted by: Debbie (Fenske) Moore (Cousin to Mary Jr) on: Dec 18, 2019
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I am so very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I met Mary when she came to work at CPL Poseidon. We quickly became friends and spent many hours working together. She participated in many CPL girl's activities outside of the office - dinners, murder mystery nights, tacky parties. She was so much fun. She was a lovely, caring and compassionate person and she loved her family very much. She will be missed by many. My condolences to Mary Jr. and extended family. - Posted by: Joan Jarvie (J.J.) (Friend/CoWorker) on: Dec 18, 2019
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Mary, I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. My fondest memory of aunt Mary was her infectious laugh and her gentle soul. Thinking of you and wishing you moments of peace and comfort during this tough time. Cathy Fenske-Isbister - Posted by: Cathy isbister (Cousin to Mary jr) on: Dec 18, 2019
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Mary, so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. - Posted by: Greg Earl (Friend and Co-worker) on: Dec 17, 2019
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I would like to extend my deepest condolences to read about Mary's passing and to her beloved daughter Mary...we would be known to each other as the 3 Mary's in the hospital unit. I won't forget when I was transferred to another unit and we held each others hands along with a wee tear to say so long. We shared a few giggles as well as some very intelligent conversations. The bond between mother and daughter was incredible and so very endearing. May you rest in eternal peace Mary. I'll never forget you. - Posted by: Rosemary Wade (Neighborly friend in St Boniface Hospital) on: Dec 17, 2019
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Sorry to hear of Mary's passing. Although I didn't know her personally, I read above that she was a niece of my mom's, Edna Broome. I know that Edna had a brother living in Winnipeg but didn't know of any other family there. I would love to get in touch and see how we are related, you can find me on Facebook if anyone is interested. My deepest condolences, Scott Broome. - Posted by: Scott Broome (Cousin?) on: Dec 17, 2019
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I worked with Mary at Charleswood care. She was an amazing woman. When I couldn’t talk to my mom I got her best advice. Rest In Peace Mary. So sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Deena Bonazew (Co workwr) on: Dec 17, 2019
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I have been very privileged to be part of the Mary's life these past 20+ years. At every celebration we shared laughs and joy. Mary Sr's presence will be extremely missed by my family and myself. My daughter came to look upon Mary Sr. as a grandmother figure and loved spending time with her. My heart breaks for Mary Jr. and her family. Our deepest condolences Love Karen, Alex & Simone - Posted by: Karen Krasicki (Family friend ) on: Dec 16, 2019
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I was so sorry to see the obit in today’s paper and send my condolences to Mary and family. I met Mary when I was 18 and started working in Traffic Division at the Winnipeg Police department. We became fast friends and I was honoured when she asked me to be a bridesmaid when she married. I left for a different employment opportunity and later she left when young Mary was born. We met often for years and then our lives became busy and we kept in touch only through our annual Christmas card vowing to get together and never doing it. I was on my way to mail the Xmas card today when I saw the paper this morning. My thoughts and prayers are with you and am sorry I cannot attend her service as I will be away. - Posted by: Arlene Jones (Friend) on: Dec 14, 2019
