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TREVOR GEORGE ROSARIO CAYER
Born: Oct 16, 1981
Date of Passing: Sep 23, 2020
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TREVOR GEORGE ROSARIO CAYER
October 16, 1981 - September 23, 2020
Trevor was born and raised in Winnipeg. He was diagnosed with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy at the age of three, the prognosis limiting his life expectancy, which he greatly surpassed with strength, determination, and his stubbornness. As a child he had the opportunity to travel with his family to California as part of the Make-a-Wish Foundation, visiting DisneyLand, San Diego Zoo and Universal Studios. At age 15 his disease forced him into a wheelchair which was years past original expectations; however he drove his power chair like a skilled daredevil, going fast, stopping on a dime and tackling rough terrain as it came his way.
Trevor attended school in St. Vital graduating in French Immersion from Collège Jeanne-Sauvé in 2000. He volunteered for many years in a variety of roles including as a DJ at 91.1 FM CKXL hosting his French radio show called "Le champ de patates". He was also very involved with Muscular Dystrophy Canada throughout his lifetime in many different capacities - including as a mentor to many young clients of the MDC family. He worked for nearly a decade as an inbound call centre operator, where he had success as a trainer and telephone representative.
After the birth of his daughter Jade in 2004, he and Kristin married in 2005. In 2014 he made the decision to be trach'ed and ventilated, giving him energy and a renewed vibrancy. Despite the limitations and the daily challenges of having a neuro-muscular disorder he lived independently in his own home. In later years he volunteered teaching PCA's through the PACE program at IRLC. Trevor was surprised for his 34th birthday with a trip to Las Vegas, where he visited the Grand Canyon, Hoover Dam and came home excited to show off a new tattoo.
Trevor had a love of exotic pets, from his green iguana "Morty", his budgies, an albino hedgehog, desert iguanas, puffer fish, and his Sphynx cats, Felix and Axel, who now reside with his daughter Jade. The many chameleon looks of Trevor included his ever changing hair and beard styles, piercings, a variety of camouflage colours and patterns, and his viking toque and his camo 'trach cozy'.
Trevor was a huge fan of music, movies, video games and humour. He was known for quoting movies and TV shows. He loved going to see live music whether it was at a bar, a large venue, or outdoor show. He was always up to date with the latest video game consoles and had been celebrating the successful ordering of his newest systems.
A special thank you to all of his personal care workers over the years, they were more than workers, becoming trusted friends. A very heartfelt thank you to Dr Rockman-Greenberg for her involvement throughout Trevor's life.
He was a son, brother, father, and friend to many and will be greatly missed.
A "party" and Celebration of Life will be held, complete with his favourite foods and beverages, once current gathering restrictions are lifted.
For those who wish, donations may be made to Muscular Dystrophy Canada, 1-800-567-2873, kindly specify Winnipeg Equipment and Services fund.
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Oct 03, 2020
Condolences & Memories (17 entries)
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I had the privilege of getting to know Trevor when I worked at IMI and dated one of his friends. I even went with him while he hosted a radio slot or two. He was truly an amazing person with a great sense of humour and the largest library of downloaded music I had ever seen. (Back when Napster was still considered cutting edge technology, haha.) I remember his beautiful baby Jade and how much joy she brought him. I would like to express my sincere condolences to Trevor's family and friends. - Posted by: Chelsea Ross (Coworker/Friend ) on: Nov 02, 2020
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Reg & family. So very saddened to hear of Trevor's passing. Although only briefly that our paths crossed again after so many years, we were blessed to have had an opportunity to meet Trevor through our nephew Cameron and the many fund raisers for Muscular Dystrophy. Our deepest sympathies to the family. - Posted by: Katherine Walker Dyne (former colleague) on: Oct 16, 2020
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Reg, Elaine and Family, Sorry for your loss. Our sincere condolences - Posted by: Paul & Susan Skakum (Friend) on: Oct 09, 2020
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Trevor I miss the hanging with u as a kid. I miss ur stubborn ass. I miss putting on makeup and nail polish on you. We had fun as kids. You had a hard life and you outdid what the doctors projected. You got to go to some cool places and had the chance to have a family. You went farther than all was imagined. You did good! I’ve always loved you and will forever miss you. Auntie Elaine and Uncle Reg, Dana and Tara. I’m so sorry. I also love you all. Our hearts go out to everyone. - Posted by: Shannon Philippon (Cousin ) on: Oct 08, 2020
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We are so saddened to hear about Trevor's passing. Our deepest heartfelt condolences to all the entire Cayer family, but especially Reg and Elaine. Trevor was very friendly a special person. I will miss doing work for at his home and chatting with him while I was there. He will be in our thoughts. - Posted by: Lou Felicioni (friend/neighbor) on: Oct 06, 2020
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My sincere condolences Reg and Elaine on the loss of your son Trevor. You obviously afforded him every opportunity to live his life to the fullest and you can be proud of the part you played in his journey. May your many happy memories bring you comfort. - Posted by: Gail (Cayer) Derby (Cousin) on: Oct 04, 2020
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I am saddened to learn of Trevor’s passing and offer my heartfelt sympathy to his entire family. I will always have fond memories of Trevor’s warm smile and wonderful sense of humour during his high school years at CJS. Repose en paix, cher Trevor. - Posted by: Terry Borys (High School Principal ) on: Oct 04, 2020
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Condolences to the Cayer family. When I taught Trevor in elementary school, he was already a people person who loved to entertain others. I have never forgotten his determination to do as much or more than anyone else. - Posted by: P. Bosc (former teacher at École St. Germain) on: Oct 04, 2020
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Trevor was an idol to my son, Josh. He was his mentor. Trevor had a heart of gold and would do whatever he could to bring happiness to all. He and Josh will be free to do everything they wish they could have done while they changed our lives. Run far, climb high and fly free! 💔 - Posted by: Naomi (Friend ) on: Oct 03, 2020
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I am so very saddened to hear of Trevor’s passing. There were times when I thought his feistiness and determination would keep him alive forever. In spite of his reliance on others to tend to his most basic needs, he was fiercely (very fiercely) independent. Trevor’s fight and will to maintain his quality of life taught me lessons he will never know about. I am so, so grateful to have been a part of his journey in this world, and he in mine. Rest now, Trevor. - Posted by: Genny Heroux (Part of his team) on: Oct 03, 2020
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I was his bodyguard lol. Friend, travel companion, bro. His confidence and determination were an inspiration. A beautiful soul extinguished too soon, a survivor that defied the odds. You shall be missed old friend. R.W. - Posted by: Ryan Wishnowski (Friend) on: Oct 03, 2020
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So sorry for the loss of your son. I remember how Rene was close to him and they are NOW reunited together now free of pain and living a beautiful life I am sure. I have beautiful memories of him while camping at Rock Garden, hugs. - Posted by: jeannette vandale (nephew) on: Oct 03, 2020
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So sorry for your loss, he now can run forever and be free of his wheelchair. Hugs to the family. - Posted by: Suzanne cote (Cousin) on: Oct 03, 2020
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Elaine and Reg Saddened to hear the news of Trevor's passing. Our prayers go out to you and your family. Blessings Terry and Phyl - Posted by: Phyllis and Terry Hodichuk (friend of family) on: Oct 03, 2020
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This obituary is a fitting tribute to a courageous soul. Reading it I could hear his laugh many times. He will always be remembered with love and admiration for living a life to the fullest of abilities. - Posted by: Sandy (Auntie) on: Oct 03, 2020
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Norm and I were very saddened to hear about the loss of your dear son Trevor. May your family and friends help you heal and may you forever hold his memory close to your heart. Out thoughts are with you all at this time. - Posted by: Brenda Tesch (Friend) on: Oct 03, 2020
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My heartfelt condolences to Trevor’s family. He was so clever and honest, a friend with a wicked sense of humour. I will cherish the memories I have of going to concerts and movies with him, spending hours together listening to music and burning mixed CDs. Back in High School his nickname was Bulldog and he loved it. I will miss him and cherish all the laughs we had together. - Posted by: Andrea Pelletier (Friend) on: Oct 03, 2020