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HOPE ANTOINETTE (TONI) BROTHERS (CARRUTHERS)
Born: Jan 10, 1940
Date of Passing: Jan 09, 2021Offer Condolences or Memory Make a donation to CancerCare Manitoba Foundation
HOPE ANTOINETTE (TONI) BROTHERS
January 10, 1940 - January 9, 2021
We believe that this picture taken in the spring of 2020, captures the essence of a lovely, spirited, and soulful woman, Toni Brothers.
Born in Edmonton Alberta, she moved as a child with her parents and siblings to Thunder Bay, Ontario. There, Toni worked at the Arthur Cafe where she met the love of her life and her future husband, the late Murray Brothers. In 1964, they moved to Winnipeg where they lived for 17 years, raised a family, and Toni developed great relationships in the St. James community. In 1981, Toni, Murray and their two younger children moved to North Vancouver, where they continued to raise their family and built a strong community of friends for 22 years. Toni worked at Lions Gate Hospital, where she had a large circle of colleagues who became close friends. Lots of laughs and good times were a part of her life there. In 2002, Toni and Murray returned to Winnipeg, settling in the Riverview neighbourhood close to many family members, while making annual visits back to Vancouver to spend time with family and see old friends.
Toni was the mother of Bonnie (Hugh), Duane (Cheryl), Tanya (Peter), Tamara (Lloyd), and Tara (Dan). Toni was the grandmother of Kate (Calvin), Steve (Mizcha), Quinn, Dane, Keziah and Josiah (mom Lois), Logan, Ella, Ava, and Luca. Like all of us, Mom had many terrific memories as well as challenges and regrets, all of which she reconciled later in life. In the end, family was everything and she always placed their needs before her own.
Throughout her adult life, Toni celebrated the achievements of her family, pursued her interests in travel (especially cruises), and was keen to continuously reconnect with members of the extended Carruthers and Brothers families throughout North America. Seldom without a word search book in her handbag, she dabbled in a number of crafts including ceramics and knitting, and always loved to have luncheons with friends, old and new.
While she was often mistaken for being of Indigenous, Italian, or Greek heritage, Toni was very proud of her African-Canadian roots, and her house was adorned with Afro-centric art. Toni was the daughter of the late Douglas and Thelma Carruthers, and she is predeceased by siblings, Emily, Dwight, Pamela, Judy, and Bradley. She is survived by her twin sister Geri, and siblings, David, Derrick, Denise, Patricia, Wendy, and Susan, and their families.
Very quietly, our mother lived with many stages of cancer for two and a half years. Even on her "blue days", she demonstrated tremendous courage and strength while at the same time continuously putting family and friends first. To those who experienced her presence during these times, we all can only be humbled by her strength, together with the wonderful grace with which she lived her life and the love that she gave us while she was the one struggling.
The memory of Toni and what she shared with so many people will live on as she was cherished by all, and she will be dearly missed by her family and friends.
Mom, your spirit lives on forever.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the CancerCare Manitoba Foundation.
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As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jan 16, 2021
Condolences & Memories (3 entries)
Duane and Tanya and family. I am sorry for the passing of your dear mother Toni. I was struck by her obituary photo and thought she looked familiar. I was correct as I read on she is your mother. In my memory of the 1980's in sports I see you both inherited her good looks as she was beautiful. Anyway, in the memory of your mom, you have much to be proud of and take with you each onward. My condolences. Jill Palmer nee McWhinney - Posted by: Jill Palmer nee McWhinney (friends of Duane and Tanya) on: Jan 16, 2021
Dear Tamara and family. My heartfelt condolences goes out to all of you. Your Mom was an absolutely lovely lady. The moment I walked in her front door you could feel the love in the Brothers' home. I know Murray was waiting with open arms for her. Sending love to all of you. - Posted by: Andrea Hall (Friend) on: Jan 16, 2021
I was so sorry to read of your mother’s passing Dwayne. My condolences to you and your family and an extra hug for Josiah. Knowing that she loved you and knew you loved her, are the best memories. Our hearts and thoughts are with you. - Posted by: Lynn Ledyard-Boyce (Friend of Dwayne’s) on: Jan 16, 2021
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