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WENDY (GWENDOLYN) JOY SCOTT
Born: Mar 30, 1943
Date of Passing: Jan 27, 2022
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WENDY (GWENDOLYN) JOY SCOTT
March 30, 1943 - January 27, 2022
My Beautiful Wendy…
Surrounded by her husband Doug, of 57 years, her children, and a whole lot of love, Mom passed away very peacefully in the early morning of January 27, 2022. Mom's last day had been an amazing one. She woke up beside the love of her life, spoke with her children, was off to a pedicure and spent the afternoon at Assiniboine Park with her good friend.
Mom was born in Winnipeg on March 30, 1943 to Lorna and William Ellison. She was the youngest of three siblings, with her older brother Walter Ellison and sister Moira Drybrough. She was affectionately referred to as "Squirt" by her big brother Walt. She enjoyed wonderful summers with Cousin Enid, Grandma Ethel 'Baby' (Dad's nickname), Uncle Bill and Janet Duxbury at Oak Lake.
Mom had an incredible relationship with her own mother, Grandma Ellison. They had a lifelong friendship that was gentle and nurturing, and above all 'joyful'. It was intuitive that Grandma gave mom the middle name 'Joy', as this is how she embraced life.
Mom attended Gordon Bell High School and after graduating went to work in accounting which laid the foundation of her meticulous bookkeeping and management of the household bills, investments and many volunteer treasurer positions throughout the years. Her recent favourite volunteer position being with her exercise class.
Mom was an adventurous spirit and in 1963 she travelled across the pond with her girlfriends and hitchhiked through Europe. Meanwhile, a certain someone that she had been on a blind date with prior to her departure was writing letters and visiting her mother Lorna every week, patiently awaiting her return. Dad's efforts paid off….the stars were aligned and on June 26, 1965 Mom married Dad. Not only did Mom gain a partner for life but also amazing parents in Grandma and Grandad Scott and the extended Scott family.
Mom's zest for life continued when she learned how to ski with Dad and was a natural! Together they hit the snowy slopes in Agassiz, the Austrian Alps, Colorado, and the Rocky Mountains with family and friends. Their relationship with one another was a precious example of what marriage is at it's very best. There was never a one liner that Dad told that Mom did not laugh at, even the weak ones. Together they raised three daughters, Nancy, Diane, and Sharon and had the ability to make all three of us feel like we were the favourite. What was always explicitly clear was that Mom was dad's favourite!
When Mom and Dad moved to Harvest Lane in 1973, a whole new community family was born. Mom immersed herself in the neighbourhood and our family participated in activities at Heritage Victoria Community Club, she helped out at our elementary school and we became members of the St. Andrews Anglican church. She loved volunteering, coaching Ringette, leading Brownie troops as Snowy Owl, and canvassing for the Heart and Stroke Foundation and others. Strong friendships developed through neighbourhood coffees, holiday parties, dinners at the Silver Heights, and playing on the Pink Ladies ringette team. Mom's love and spark for life extended far beyond her family to a large circle of friends. Mom enjoyed life to the fullest, attending Jets and Bomber games, Friday luncheons with her girlfriends, gathering with neighbours for the regular Saturday morning breakfast, or having a chat while gardening or drinking coffee on the front porch of Valley View.
The girls and their husbands, Shane Hopkie, Pat Lonsdale and Steve Lougheed, gave Mom and Dad eight precious grandchildren: Jack, Kyle, Ava, Charlie, Will, Joe, Jake, and Anna who adored their Nan. Mom loved her family and was happiest spending time with the kids, whether it was at Linklater Lake, skiing at Panorama, exploring warm destinations in the winter, reading stories, or cheering them on at hockey games and school events when she was in Calgary. Mom celebrated each child for their individual talents and interests, from graduating high school to catching the largest frog, Nan was their biggest fan!
Once we were in high school, Mom returned to the workforce, starting a career in sales with Hershey's, followed by Quaker, and Tree Of Life. It was no surprise that she exceeded sales targets and achieved awards along the way. She worked with amazing colleagues who became fast friends and enjoyed memorable work trips with Dad by her side.
The wilderness cabin they built at Linklater Lake has come to represent the incredible partnership and shared vision our parents nurtured and the continued joy they cultivated in bringing family and friends together. From enjoying morning coffee visits on the dock, swims and spotting tube rides in the afternoon, happy hours and late night hot tubs, the world always melted away and all that mattered were all the wonderful people that were there (as well as the odd project!). Whether it was organizing the annual picnic, playing the 95th game of Monopoly, pushing the baby swing while watching the older grandchildren swim to the raft, play volleyball or paddle around, Mom was there and made everything just magically happen and allowed all around her to enjoy another amazing day at the lake. Dinner time usually occurred as the sun set as the daytime activities came to an end. The meals were delicious and the stories full of laughter. Linklater was infused with the love and joy that Mom and Dad created; a small cabin that grew over time to be bursting at the seams for most of the summer as the family migrated to the lake.
Mom was a beautiful soul from the inside out and we all carry memories of her compassion and kindness. We can hear her laugh now and the inflection she always had in her voice that meant she really saw you and cared about what you had to say next. Emanating from Mom was a light of joy reflecting her love of life which was felt by all as soon as she entered a room. And, if this beam of light was directed at you, you felt like you were the sole focus of her world. Her interest in you and empathy for your feelings or situation was all encompassing.
We think of the reunion she is having now with all her family and friends who will be waiting for her with open arms. Won't that be a party for them all with so much to catch up on! Heartbreaking that we can't be part of it but we have faith they are having a heck of a time.
Mom cherished and supported The Assiniboine Park Conservancy. Flowers are gratefully declined but, if friends so desire, donations may be made to the Assiniboine Park Conservancy (204-927-8080 www.assiniboine park.ca).
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Feb 05, 2022
Condolences & Memories (19 entries)
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My sister (Tracy) and I are good friends of the Scott sisters in Calgary. Over the years we have had the privilege of spending time with both Wendy and Doug. And privilege it was, just a wonderful family and Wendy was just amazing. Remembering small details of everyone’s lives, always remembering everyone’s names and always full of kind, encouraging words, love, light and laughter. You will be so missed and had such a lovely impact on everyone you met. Our heartfelt condolences to the whole family.❤️ - Posted by: Jill Johnson (Friend) on: Apr 04, 2022
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Wendy was such a lovely human being. When Wendy became a client along with Doug. She was always so joyful and kind. Whenever you spoke to Wendy or were around her you could instantly feel the warmness, joy and the appreciation she had for life. She knew how to make a person feel appreciated and she was a bright light. ❤️✨ We are so very sad to hear of her passing. We are keeping Doug and the Entire family in our thoughts and prayers. Sending you lots of love during this difficult time. Kate and Victor Brito - Posted by: Kate and Victor Brito (Client and Friend ) on: Mar 09, 2022
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Doug and family, I am so sad to hear of Wendy's passing. It has been two years since I served you and Wendy at Salisbury House on the 2 for Tuesday night. I have many fond memories of you both Wendy and you and the rest of the group that I was so lucky to serve for so many years. We had many laughs over the years that I will always remember fondly. I will forever remember Wendy's beautiful smile and kind nature. May she rest in peace - Posted by: Lynne McGibney (Friend) on: Feb 23, 2022
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Wendy was so lovely. I’m sorry it took me so long to write something. I think about the Scott sisters and Doug all the time. I am just so deeply sorry for your loss. - Posted by: Tracy Johnson (Friend) on: Feb 13, 2022
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So sorry to hear of this. I didn't really know Wendy but had worked with Doug for a number of years. My condolences to Doug & family. - Posted by: Wes Ammeter (Friend) on: Feb 11, 2022
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I was so very sorry to hear of this news. My deepest condolences to Mr. Scott (as I called him), Diane, Nancy and Sharon. The obituary was lovely and certainly conveyed a life well lived full of love and family. - Posted by: Colleen Kuruluk (Family friend through ringette and Diane) on: Feb 09, 2022
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My condolences to Doug and family. So very sorry to here of Wendy's passing. Having the great pleasure of knowing Wendy for many years. Doug and I worked together for a long time and so attended many company functions over the years as well as bumping into them when eating out or other events . Wendy was always so happy we always had a lot to chat about. We Will all miss her. Many happy memories. Ray Morris - Posted by: Ray Morris (Friend) on: Feb 08, 2022
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Our deepest condolences to the family. Frank & Anna - Posted by: Frank & Anna Troia (Friend) on: Feb 08, 2022
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We are both shocked and deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Wendy. Jan and Wendy would meet and share the same bench before and after Elderobics classes. Her passing leaves a big void in the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with them at this time. Paul and Janet Zubec - Posted by: Janet and Paul Zubec (friend & neighbour) on: Feb 07, 2022
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Wendy’s sparkle in her eyes and warmth in her heart glowed wherever she was. I’ll never forget when she was there with her parents and children and the fire struck. Together we managed it and all were fine. Bless you all. May your rich memories sustain you. Lovingly, Sonja, Linnae and Deanna. Linklater Lake - Posted by: Sonja Lundstrom (Friend) on: Feb 07, 2022
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Doug we are so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing Jim & Vlieta - Posted by: Jim and Vlieta Thomson (Friend) on: Feb 06, 2022
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We were distressed and saddened to hear about Wendy’s sudden passing. We've known Wendy since our kids were active at Heritage-Victoria Community Club. She was a caring, vibrant person and had a kind word and a smile for everyone. Wendy was so full of life it seems impossible that she’s gone. Our deepest sympathies to the Scott family. May happy memories help to ease your loss. Carol & Wayne Guicheret - Posted by: Carol Guicheret (Friend) on: Feb 06, 2022
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I am terribly sad that Wendy is no longer with us and am so sorry for your loss. The quote from her obituary that definitely described my experience during my many interactions with Wendy was, "...and the inflection she always had in her voice that meant she really saw you and cared about what you had to say next..." Wendy's lovely, calm presence and the warmth, kindness and good humour she unfailingly exuded always drew me to her. As you may be able to tell, Wendy was important to me and I will very much miss her. - Posted by: Janice Finlay ((Former) Elderobics Instructor) on: Feb 05, 2022
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Wendy was an amazing mom who raised 3 of the best women I have ever met! She will be missed dearly 💕💕💕 - Posted by: Carla (Friend of family) on: Feb 05, 2022
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My condolences to the family. I met Wendy when I joined the Pink Ladies and played ringette with her for a few years. Boy did we ever have fun on those out of town tournaments and planning windups. Wendy was very creative and such a soft personality. Always a listener. She will be missed. - Posted by: Francine Soko (Friend) on: Feb 05, 2022
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Beautiful indeed! I remember Wendy as one of a special group of parents of wonderful children at Heritage School in the 70s. She was always so kind and friendly and never without a beautiful smile. I enjoyed running into her from time to time throughout the years at the Keg or more recently on a plane on one of her many trips, I am sure, to visit her kids and grandkids. A lovely tribute to a lovely lady. - Posted by: Karen Bieber (Heritage School teacher ) on: Feb 05, 2022
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Our deepest sympathies to the Scott family. Thinking of you all during this time. Eloise and Rob - Posted by: Eloise and Rob Van Walleghem (Friends ) on: Feb 05, 2022
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Wendy was always smiling. My fondest memories were playing ringette against her, ringette tournaments, dances at Heritage CC and as a neighbour. My condolences to Doug and family. She will be missed. - Posted by: Joan Einarson (Friend & neighbour) on: Feb 05, 2022
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We were so shocked to get this news last week and know how heartbroken you will all be. A very large hole has been left in your loving family. She was so proud of each and every one of you and you are going to miss her terribly. Take care of each other and stay strong. Sending love from Ottawa. Ian and Sharon Milne - Posted by: Ian and Sharon Milne (Friends ) on: Feb 05, 2022