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WANDA VALLEE RUTHERFORD
Wanda Vallee Rutherford, beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin and friend, passed this August at the age of 96.
Born in 1929 on her family's farm in Gainsborough, Saskatchewan, Wanda was the daughter of Juanita and James Raeside. She grew up with four brothers, learning the values of kindness and hard work that she would carry throughout her life.
In 1950, Wanda graduated from the Grace Hospital School of Nursing in Winnipeg. She went on to work in a variety of nursing roles, including surgical care. It was through her work as a nurse that she met her husband Allan, when she cared for one of his five sisters during labour and delivery. The two married in 1952 and shared more than 66 years of a wonderful life together.
Wanda and Allan were accomplished square dancers, traveling across Manitoba and into North Dakota to perform - including Wanda's appearances on CBC's Red River Jamboree. Summers were spent on Lake of the Woods, where they sailed, entertained, and created lasting memories with family and friends.
In 1974, Wanda and Allan purchased the Bridge Drive-In (BDI), the iconic Winnipeg ice cream shop that quickly became part of the city's heart. As manager until her retirement at 65, Wanda's warmth and friendliness shaped the BDI into what it is today. She had an extraordinary ability to connect with people - chatting with every customer, remembering names and stories, and making all feel welcome. The BDI became an institution in large part because of the person Wanda was.
Beyond her work, Wanda was an avid traveler, exploring the world from Zimbabwe to Scotland. Everywhere she went, she made friends - people were naturally drawn to her vibrant personality, her curiosity, and her gift for conversation.
Wanda is survived by her children Kathryn (Paul) and Blair (Laura); her grandchildren Jessica (Justin), Chad (Renée), Clara, and Ry (Allegra); and her great-grandchildren Landry, Declan, and Bryson. She is also survived by her brother Barry (Susie), her nieces and nephews, and countless friends who were blessed to know her. She was predeceased by her husband Allan, her parents Juanita and James, and her brothers Vaughn, Morley and Glen.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the wonderful staff at Carter Senior Care for the exceptional care and kindness shown to Wanda over the past two years. Their compassion and support made them feel like family to her, and for this, we are deeply grateful. A special thank you to Robin, Karna, and Karen for their unwavering dedication and love.
Wanda's legacy is one of love, laughter, and connection. She will be remembered for her kindness, her adventurous spirit, and the joy she brought into the lives of all who knew her.
A celebration of Wanda's life will be held on a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Winnipeg Children's Hospital.
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Sep 06, 2025
Condolences & Memories (7 entries)
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We are so sorry to learn of Wanda's passing. Her daughter Kate is married to my wife's cousin Paul Bragg, and we met her through them several years ago. She will be missed by many of her relatives and friends, and we offer our deepest sympathy, especially to Kate and Blair and their families. Wanda was such a joy to be around, and we consider it a privilege to have known her. - Posted by: Shirley & Perry West (Friends) on: Sep 11, 2025
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Condolences to Wanda’s family. I met Wanda while caring for her mother Juanita. I remember when we once sat in front of the TV with her enjoying ice cream she brought from BDI while watching a Television news feature about her and BDI. I would also regularly see her and chat at the Grace Hospital Nurses Alumni Dinners where she regularly attended and helped out. I have missed her friendly smile this last few years. Sad to hear of her passing. - Posted by: Twyla (Acquaintance) on: Sep 06, 2025
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My heartfelt sympathy to all the family with the passing of Wanda. She was a joyful person always lifting others up with her warm greetings and kindly ways. She was a supportive friend to all who knew her. We will remember her smile forever! - Posted by: Geraldine ( Besant ) Prouten (Friend) on: Sep 06, 2025
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Wanda was a second Mom to me growing up. I spent so much time with Kate and her family once they moved to Salme Drive. She was such a pleasant, caring lady, and she made me feel like I was part of her family. Thank you for sharing your Mom with me Kate and Blair. - Posted by: Darlene Auld (Tober) (Friend of the family) on: Sep 06, 2025
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It was such a pleasure to have known Wanda for so many years. She was always a bright light in any gathering, and otherwise, a kind person with a great sense of humor. I will miss her. My deepest Condolences to Kate and Paul and all of their family. With love. - Posted by: Nancy Creed (Friend) on: Sep 06, 2025
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My Condolences to Wanda's family. Getting to know Wanda was a great gift and privilege. Her warmth and genuine curiosity drew people to her wherever we went. Always so full of energy, laughter and kindness. She will always hold a special place in my heart. - Posted by: Karen Seburn (Care giver.) on: Sep 06, 2025
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What a sweetheart this woman was. Wanda you touched the hearts of so many and I am grateful to Kate for bringing you into my life. You will be greatly missed. - Posted by: Jacqueline Cadorette (Friend of the family) on: Sep 06, 2025